Just having the chance to talk forces you to open up more and get to know each other better.
When you feel comfortable with a person at a communicative level that has become more and more intimate, it is natural to miss him even physically.
As cold and impersonal as the screen may be, what passes can be real and true, maybe even a little more intense because it is fought.Missing someone is possible and natural, Think of those who live in a shanty town and want a house with hot water and sewage ...
Those who have never met their father are missing a piece of the puzzle of their life, and you try to deny it because it hurts you, it's natural and right ...
Love is missing in those who have not yet experienced it ...
Missing the person for whom he lost his head to those who love only platonically
A child is missing for those who cannot have it
You can't miss a thing or a person that you don't know exists, some things feel strong and true inside you even if you have never experienced or met them.
Ghosting .. going away without a reason is a technique widely used by manipulative people, especially among family and friends, but even more today in chats and soial networks, because you feel the need to be desired, but there is also the possibility that he has noticed a wrong or done something wrong and wants to leave without giving explanations .. delete and unsubscribe
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@Lync This, too, was misinterpreted ;)
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@Lazz Ah im glad your passing on ur messages and experiences...u never know u might have just changed someone's life for the better 😁
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@Lazz Another Could have , should have, would have always come after past, in the end it's a knowledge you gain and a experience, now you are aware of it also have a choice in future to repeat it or not ?? Same same but different !
so I have nothing to say much you are being sounding board in this post u replied you question for yourself .. have a stress less moment and happy time !! -
@knownsense Well, there MAY just be something new developing. Too early to tell, but so far a better than not experience. ;)
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@Lazz sweet ! It's in process I guess??, analysing the realisation will know gain knowledge profoundly soon or later until then experience !!
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@knownsense Some things are better left unsaid. :thinking:
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@Lazz aah life huh? Never gets any easier, we just get more resilient to it.
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@Lazz honestly I am little confused now !! Ok so you are glad that she is not hurt, about your good bye to her !! So what is the point that you are feeling sad that's the way she made you feel the way you feel now ??
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@knownsense Ah, I see the lack of clarity, now. Women are confusing. :thinking:
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@Lazz ok so what make you worry so much .. friend fine I guess even better .. I could say it's respect, towards them that you stayed with them, gave you all comfort and even loved you took care of now times is , are changes wasn't a match, so let go with peace and harmony, than hate and negativity I think !! Far future u never know so let be as it is ..
So you move on it's ok all in her head make sure to her that it's not in your head what's on her head .. prove it not thinking much and just update her as a friend about your life also most important about you new girlfriend ..so see after that what it will be, as my experience it's s clear message you are just s friend and need to move on -
@knownsense Yes. I think there is more clarity and understanding, now. Forgive me for not being as clear, earlier. :pray:
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@Lazz I am really glad that's it was help to you !!
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@knownsense To be honest, the whole thing confuses me to no end. But I'm going to just leave it go. Women can be as confusing as they are intoxicating. Some, and some of the time. :wink:
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@Lazz well you cant blame women for your own doing , that is you urself let go so far that's you asked yourself to make you feel this way for yourself, or asked to treat you this way now your are not able to accept it as it is I guess ??
And as I know plus with research, it's s man's world and man did rules and regulations to his benifits , and it's in all mythological books or relegious text, women consider crazy unbelieable avatar, for example medusa Kali,I think man didn't knew how to understand women still we don't but blaming is not a solution !!, I do agree they are total confused mess , if you ask a women do you like flower they say no ,but fact is they love it most !! So yeah -
@knownsense Ah, I see. I'm not laying blame, especially not on women, in general. Just my own opinion regarding this situation. Of course the confusion is my own.. :)
The rest will eventually sort itself
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@Lazz it's man genetic I guess ?? Been generation confused about women , still wondering with confusion and in search mode to find the Perfect sense to make about , what women need or what they are ??
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@knownsense On a recent trip I happened to find myself talking with an older gent, and he posited me the following:
Why are women so attractive? So us (men) will like them. And:
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@Lazz well said and make sense
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@Lazz I did mention to you earlier that's u r being soundimg board for yourself in this post, also you did solved your question.. but you had a hard time to put it in order to make sense of it to your mind .. I guess ??