I just came out to my mom as pansexual and now I’m not allowed to have any friends over anymore and she thinks it’s a β€œphase” πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”


  • @Teagan-com Yeah wow that's actually not right for her to do that, of course its your right to feel how you feel not hers, so i think its not very nice that she's doing that to you, if i was you i wouldn't even listen to her honestly id still sneak people in lol! F what she says tho


  • @Oliver111 i wish i could but i have camreas all over my house. Theres a camrea in my room


  • @Teagan-com for real?? Even in your room, well then, Thats an invasion of privacy, why is she sooo soo protective tho😣 that's gotta be tough


  • @Oliver111 𝐒𝐭 𝐒𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐧. 𝐈𝐦 𝐨𝐧π₯𝐲 𝐚π₯π₯𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐒𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩π₯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐦 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚π₯π₯𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐒𝐚π₯ 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐒𝐚.


  • look up "Tor browser" youll have to prolly turn on javascript support in it to have access to social media (not sure i dont do social media)
    and about camera (either hack it or just put a shirt on it whenever youre in the room.

    My rule for people like that - i dont talk with them about my private stuff.
    My mum tried to select my gf during high school- i just stopped telling her about my gf and what im doing.
    When she pushed to much i had a deal with friend from organisation i was involved in to send me text message that they need me every time i had a date :D worked like a charm. For some time. When they finally found out.
    They started with: That i lied and cheated them.
    I said of course i did , when i tried to talk with you you didnt even listen.
    then they went but we are living loinger then you, we know whats good for you
    my answer: maybe you do. but youll not be around through all my life to tell me whats good whats not, so i have to figure it out myself.
    Since then they never intervened.


  • @Teagan-com That's beyond messed up... makes me so mad, controlling behaviour. I wonder where it comes from and what made her that way? In any case, it isn't acceptable. Is there there someone you can talk to in private (a trusted and understanding teacher maybe?) about your situation? Hang in there, you'll be free to do your own thing soon enough.


  • @Matt_Aranha awww thanks and no not really


  • @derby that sounds too difficult. And plus she would see me put a shirt over it. It can hear stuff too


  • @Teagan-com Gutted 😞 keep getting what support you can wherever you can get it then. There will always be people here you can lean on and share your load with. This time is really hard for you, but you will get through it.


  • She probably hopes you are a phase