@Mica This is so modernize, most people won't care about any of that per se.
If anyone gets bored, that's dating, you're not supposed to be perfect for one another.
You're there to communicate your authentic selves, to allow the other person to know you, not what you can act like.
Getting bored is good signs that however much effort one puts in, it won't be stimulating enough for both party.
It doesn't mean anyone is boring, they're just boring to one another.
Whatever interests someone has, likely someone else out there also share similar interests.
No one should place so much emphasis on "pull out the chair for her at the dinner table". If girls swoon over that, that's not a girl I would converse with.
If the lady has a very nice dress on, in which it would be difficult for her to open the door due to the dress getting caught, then yes, the other should open the door.
If not, this is just another hooligan aspect people do. There are girls whom are annoyed, and prefer to open doors themselves, and views opening the door for them as an act of control instead of kindness.
If you're late for actual good reasons, the date will forgive you. Any actual person will have the ability to discern and empathize for the chaotic madness of another person's life. They would admire you for being late due to helping out with the nieces and nephews.
"Take your order first,a girl likes a guy who's put together and knows what he wants in life."
So many...So many females, would glare you down, and slap you for thinking such ideas of what girls like. Smh....Seriously? Wow.
"Nevertheless just play it cool like you are just at home chilin and just be you"
This however, yes is very good advice. Transparency and authenticity are stars among stars when it comes to communication.