@No-Name-Yet said in I want to chat with a single person preferable 30 plus who can offer an opinon on a serious matter.:
@Conquistadore-Rojo is there any way to send the non-public message on here?
Yes, it isn't that you have to follow THEM in order to send a private/direct message. Usually they have to follow YOU. If somebody follows you then you can message them regardless of whether you follow them too.
However this is only the case if a user's messages are on the default setting. Some users such as myself have their inbox set to be open, which means anybody can message them without having to be followed first.
If you still need advice and want to drop me a message, feel free.