i can be v your friend I'm 46
Friends being clingy and general angst
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@Deimat Sometimes I wish I could just change my personality to be the equivalent of a brick so no one would find me worthy to talk to while other times I want to be better to the people i know
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I don't want to be lonely either but I find with any relationship I seem to be the giver
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@Deimat I am Easily manipulated like u mentioned
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@cant-breathe if you ever need to talk my dms are open
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@cant-breathe It's kinda sad how if you're not seen posting anything online you are seen as dead when you can just make the effort to talk to them in person but then again that could probably bring relatives wanting something your way so ehh
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I'm here in baby steps lol I only have this so I am only gonna stay here if that's OK..
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@cant-breathe that's entirely your decision which is the one great thing about not being known on accounts, you can delete it without people irl questioning you
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Relatives fr-enemies and gossip diggers... Found out I didn't need to go on FB to tell my business... My best friend of 27 years had been doing it for me lol... She had been talking about my life to make hers look better I confronted her it was beautiful lol
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@cant-breathe Wowwwwws that's shitty
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@cant-breathe ouch at least it seems like you had the last laugh? still that level of betrayal my god
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@Deimat she was the type of person who always made u feel like u were not worthy of her friendship turns out she was just an insecure backstabbing ditch pig that needed to tear people down to bring herself up... She lives in her sad little lie every day... Knowing that makes me feel better... Is that wrong of me?
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@cant-breathe some people may say otherwise but if they broke you down like that for 27 years and you were sensible enough to not kill them I feel you like feeling joy out of the lie that is their life is deserved seeing as you've grown and moved on without them.
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Thank you
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What's ur most messed up "friend monent"
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does girlfriend count? basically we had no communication which was both of our faults I'm not saying that I didn't contribute but basically she ended up breaking up with me over text, making up a story about me dating two people during my time dating her (which she probably got the idea from my poor friend), and then asked her ex in which was my friend and wanted nothing to do with her on a date within a few days after breaking up with me. Is this the worst thing relationship wise I'll experience? I'm not finding out
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It's not the worst u will go thru trust me I have been thru some pretty crazy stuff my marriage of one year ended this weekend when he took off cause I told him we couldn't get a car or mortgage cause his x will put liens on it even though he paid her direct she never claimed it. He went back to her on Friday... I'm sorry but I'm the wrong person to say it gets better... My first husband of 13 years stalked me for 10vyears after our separation and divorce ... And the 2nd relationship in 23 years and I get kicked in the teeth lol...
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@cant-breathe man I wish I could think of something to help that situation my perspective is probably too naive to even help taking steps to help yourself and the family you trust would probably be the main priority at that point. the stalker situation brings up so much dread for what a person in the people I know's life is going to become, from what I know he's followed at least two people on the bus to their house and targets girls which sucks for my friend group
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Nothing to do hopefully my x husband stays away when I divorce my current husband I get the papers tomorrow... No help necessary I have been dealt much worse... I had to run with 2 kids from my x... At least I don't have to go to a shelter again...
