@Ash33 xe/zer
do boys actually get real crushes on girls or is that just an urban myth
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THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION. we should do much research into it. very important. let's start with that cute boy over there.
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oof.... @DIV here spilling sum tea
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@sophieuwu
Umm ive had a crush on girl befor and whenever i would think of her it would make my stomach feel weird and i would always smile to myself -
Not a boy but close to my brother and I would definitely say he has had crushes compared to like just wanting girls. He gets cute and fidgety and won't answer a question correctly xP
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@AmyLancaster I know people like that lol
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i once felt for a girl i did the impossible to get her and she was my motivation but she in another level (one year bigger than me) so she got married .
you can love who you want… But so can they :broken_heart: -
@sophieuwu I wasn't aware that lads having crushes was possible disinformation. As a 40 year old man, I can confirm that I had crushes when I was a teenager, and I still have crushes now. In fact, the whole spectrum of crushes-versus-legitimate-romances-versus-true-soulmatery ...it's a very blurred line. I h8 blurred lines. I h8 blurred lines.
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@sophieuwu most of the boys have a crush on girls whom are single or the broken once
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@sophieuwu Um actually some guys are different from others like me I actually do get a crush on a girl by how she is like he personality it's just what I like others seem to only care for the looks
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Yes.
If by "crush" you mean intense momentary attraction due to a pleasing physical appearance and nothing else.
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Of course. Sadly it tends to make them act in ways, that makes them unattractive to said girl. Takes quite some practice to overcome the natural inclination to adore the one you have a crush on and act natural so she could actually start to like you :joy:
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@sophieuwu its a myth . a piece of advice for you stop watching romantic web series :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
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@sophieuwu yes we do have crush, love but we fail to express.
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@sophieuwu boys only have Bonners for girls... Thass it
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Indeed we do-
Crushes.
Infatuations.
Etc.Most guys only become cold hearted sex fiends because they hang out with the wrong friends or because they watch too much heartless porn and begin to think that behavior is "normal"
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@ScruffyMutt said in do boys actually get real crushes on girls or is that just an urban myth:
Indeed we do-
Crushes.
Infatuations.
Etc.Most guys only become cold hearted sex fiends because they hang out with the wrong friends or because they watch too much heartless porn and begin to think that behavior is "normal"
Poor guys indeed. And they don't even know that their own sex life would be so much more fulfilling (and the orgasms better) if emotions where involved. And they also don't know that those men who are really good with women are those that are emotionally present in the moment (hint: nice guys are the opposite of emotionally present, they're always trying to disperse tension).
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@ScruffyMutt and @PetrAPark3r
Most sex buddies end up catching feelings for each other, it's not always senseless sex :shrug:
Also I speak for myself, I'd rather have a fuck budy then go around having ONS with girls I don't even know if are clean :shrug: -
Nah, we boys ofc got no feelings at aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall :joy:
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@sophieuwu No it's just true, mainly cause we too scared of rejection :/
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Well that's an interesting theory 🤔