Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Where did all my FRIENDS go ?
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i feel that, losing the people around you
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I just got on here today to possibly talk to some people, and maybe make some friends. I've had the problem you've had before and it sucks. You think you have friends and people that care about you, but when you stop talking to them or stop feeding their boredom, they just forget about you. I've had friends before that I would hang out with everyday and we would talk a lot, but when I stop/can't talk to them or am not available they don't bother to ask questions, or check on me. It doesn't feel good, and there can be reasons why they don't ask or check on you. Definitely if was on this site, maybe they lost access to their account for a while, or just stopped using it. I'm sorry about the problem you're having with the friends you are making on here, and hope you can find some quality people to talk to and be friends with.
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@RenaFoxion Thank You & I know there are reasons but it still sucks.
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@Sara-f don't be sad
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Aww, I'm sorry. I havent been on it months because no one really texted me. I didnt mean to hurt your feeling by not reaching out
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@Sara-f :-) thou your heart is aching..
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@Daysia I did text you a few times but no response so I figured you were not here anymore. Idkn it’s just weird everyone just leaving.
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@Sara-f sad !! 😢😢....
But most of the people you mentioned haven't been here either so i guess you don't need to be angry at them 🙂🙂 -
Most of those people are not around anymore and that is probably why they didn't text. It's sad... but people move on from this site and get back to their life. Did you get the contact of any of those, outside TWS?
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