Can You Give Me Advice

[TheGoldenMole]

@Wolfie_11 I didn’t say I was special, but since you said I’m not maybe I should include that I am. Though it is irrelevant because you are too, as is everyone else. If you think otherwise then you should think again

[TheGoldenMole]

@ayetofi said in Can You Give Me Advice:

Um there could alot of reasons for that. First it could be a physiological thing there are many people who doesnt really find themselves comfortable around other people.

I feel fine around other people. I just lack any feeling towards them I guess?

Or the 2 nd the friends u have arent really people u can trust um u can see that they call u friend but maybe they arent really someone u can rely on blindly so well idk i dont really know a solution to that i recommend u to think twice about ur friends and visit a physiologist .

Yeah, a lot of people call me their friend and I don’t even trust them like that 😂 but there are a few people that I do consider friends and I know I can trust them. Perhaps it is trust, and maybe it’s trusting is the only way I can make friends :shrug:

[Wolfie_11]

@TheGoldenMole
Never said I’m special.
I’m just different to you.
And I’m not irrelevant, neither are you.
On second thought, I believe yes, we’re all special in our own mind and way indeed, unless you’ve a twin. I thought again, and then I’m saying. Maybe you’ll see me build a space travel portal with a range of several galaxies and then you shall believe me. Till then, you’re free to assume my irrelevance. :)

[TheGoldenMole]

@cjko Maybe it is that too. There are times when I talk to someone and I’m thinking “this person is total bullshit”😂 maybe we can just see through the fake, and if we don’t want it then we cant bond with it. I also believe in quality over quantity, that’s why I cherish the very few friends I have

[cjko]

@TheGoldenMole yeah right.. who wants to get along with a fake friend ? No one, right? I only have few friends whom I can trust ..

[TheGoldenMole]

@Wolfie_11 I didn’t say you’re irrelevant 😂 if anything I said you’re relevant because I called you special. I said the need to point it out is irrelevant, not you. I don’t consider anyone “irrelevant”

[Lurker]

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

I don’t like cutting people off from me. I still talk and hang out with people, I’m just indifferent while doing it, I’d rather that than not even try.

I don't like to cut ppl off, but at some point it just feels void and pointless to keep em so I just let go so I can preserve some of my sanity. It's not a good feeling when you feel you give more then you get.

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

Do you know what you’re looking for?

I do, but what I'm looking for might be too farfetched! :joy:

[TheGoldenMole]

@Lurker said in Can You Give Me Advice:

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

I don’t like cutting people off from me. I still talk and hang out with people, I’m just indifferent while doing it, I’d rather that than not even try.

I don't like to cut ppl off, but at some point it just feels void and pointless to keep em so I just let go so I can preserve some of my sanity. It's not a good feeling when you feel you give more then you get.

I understand that. Sometimes an intire conversation can seem pointless 😂

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

Do you know what you’re looking for?

I do, but what I'm looking for might be too farfetched! :joy:

Hopefully not or else you may never find what you’re looking for 😂

[Wolfie_11]

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

@Wolfie_11 I didn’t say you’re irrelevant 😂 if anything I said you’re relevant because I called you special. I said the need to point it out is irrelevant, not you. I don’t consider anyone “irrelevant”

Damn. I misunderstood it then.
Then our point is the same lol
I’m still gonna build that portal though :)

[TheGoldenMole]

@cjko but now I wonder if fake friends want fake friends or if they still want real friends? If they want real friends then why are they fake?🤔

[Lurker]

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

Hopefully not or else you may never find what you’re looking for

Farfetched isn't impossible tho I just gotta keep trying and it will eventually show up! :D

@Wolfie_11 said in Can You Give Me Advice:

I’m still gonna build that portal though

Please do, I will use it so freaking often and will forever be grateful to you :joy:

[cjko]

@TheGoldenMole said in Can You Give Me Advice:

@cjko but now I wonder if fake friends want fake friends or if they still want real friends? If they want real friends then why are they fake?🤔

I think they want fake friends to fake around.. :)
They're too fake to get along with real ones

[onyx_the_kitten]

@TheGoldenMole I can whole heartedly say I relate to this. I feel bad cause I want to be friendly person and I consider myself to be very kind. but when I meet new peole that I don't deem "worthy" of my attention I just avoid eye contact after its shown that they aren't really my speed. I know that sounds horrible and im actually quite disappointed in myself for this mindset . I can help with specific situation questions, like how to give off the vibe that you don't want to talk, or if you need to change your headspace completely I can help with that as well.