Hey! Male 36hear
Guys I just wanna say sum real quick
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I had a best friend like that as well back in high school. She was an amazing person and I really found a kindred spirit within her, but things didn't work out. You see, she was a grade under me. In fact, we met in band camp her freshman year and were friends almost immediately. I can even remember the conversation we were having when we did first meet. It was a stupid argument between me and another kid over what the best sport was and she just inserted herself into the conversation. We were both on the sideline (faking injuries since we didn't really care for it) so, eventually the conversation melted into just the two of us. From there, we became friends! The problems started my junior year (her sophomore) and by this time I had developed a major crush on her. But, she ended up dating my cousin who was in the same grade as me (and also my bestfriend to this very day). As things go, she started talking to me less and less until we were almost strangers again. When they broke up, she wiggled her way back into my life slowly but surely, but I was a little dramatic bastard back then and pretty much thought the world was out to get me so... I guess I needed some sort of validation that she actually wanted to be in my life (stupid, I know), and we started fighting all the time and towards the end of my senior year, some things were said that shouldn't have been said and we haven't spoken since. I'm in my second year of college now and I can't help but think about her to this day. It's not about me being in love with her anymore. I'm older and a lot wiser than I was back then so I just really want to apologize for being the way I was. Things could be a lot different, but I was dramatic as hell back then. I cringe every time I think about it.
I don't know how old you are, but you seem pretty young. I assume still in high school. If so, just know that none of your problems are as big as they seem. When real world hits you, it's not a pretty sight. Enjoy this time and cherish that friendship for every second you have it. If it blossoms into more, then so be it. I can tell you really love him so do whatever it takes to maintain that!
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@InspireMe yeah I will try to and I’m really sorry to hear that about your friend! Maybe one day y’all will find each other again and be like y’all was before all the bad stuff happened
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@Vampire_Queen I have before but he passed away 4years ago, mybad I Can't find one next to his greatness..
Thank you, Next
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@Vampire_Queen I don't think so. I caused her a ton of grief and it kills me every day. I can't even imagine she thinks about it. Hopefully she lives a beautiful life though.
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Got no friends 😢
WHAT YOU READ ABOVE IS NOTHING BUT PURE GOLD☝️
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@Vampire_Queen Hey that's really cute :smile: , you n ur friend...Well, I have many friends but not someone I can relate to in a very clear way...But m happy with the fact that I got some in the outside world n here <3 N good luck to u about the issues ur facing..
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@Vampire_Queen that's really nice.. to have that someone who is always ready and never gets tired listening to you no matter what mood you have. I don't have best friends, I'm not a fan of acclaiming them my best friend. I'm happy to know things like this do still exist. Congratulations! you have your best friend.. I hope his gf and your bf are okay with this and they don't get jealous :P
Kill them with kindness :)
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@Bela-Hella oh I’m swwy for your loss😔 but happy for your experience with him alive😄
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@InspireMe I hope y’all both live a beautiful life! Y’all both sound like beautiful people
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@DarkIce thank you! And I knew you’d have some good friends your such a lovable type of person!😄🙈
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@Rendezvous chu got me
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@cjko yeah they both understand that we’re best friends I think his gf gets jelly tho but he reassures her the best way he can! And yeah I really hope you get a friendship like this so you can experience what it’s like
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@Vampire_Queen that's good then.. :)
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@Vampire_Queen Aww thank u :kissing_heart: U too ur a really cute person <3
