My dear do not base your happiness on someone else or their feelings towards you, love that only cocentrates on the body does not last, one day youre gonna find someone who's seeking for whats inside you rather than what is outside. Our bodies change with time but whats inside us remains, work on your inside starting with not depending on others to find happiness. Happiness is within. Remember character is what defines a person. While i understand we are social beings and we have emotional needs, peace of mind is more valuable than that. Keep yourself busy doing the things you love and being around people who build you. As time comes you'll find someone who accepts you as you are. But first it has to come from you. Someone also said if you don't like where you are then be where u wanna be.
What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?
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If in any case that happened, I will probably drop my jaw and overthink a lot.. I will contemplate and meditate , after that process, I'm surely open to anyone about that..
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@cjko I will start to hit on random straight people and annoy them
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@What-is-this said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
@cjko I will start to hit on random straight people and annoy them
jkhahhaa really, that's a good idea then
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@cjko haha :)
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@What-is-this gay
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I will find out i'm a lesbian after I gender change and become a hawt gal :smirk:
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@Mr-H haha this is funny
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ill tell im a vampire den 100% they will talk tu mii :>
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I started doing weird wiggly dances in my head whenever I see anything even just faintly resembling a rainbow or rainbow colours, @What-is-this also love confusing straight people by hitting on them :D THE FACES!!! As I'm bisexual/pansexual it is even more confusing for straight people. It's truely hilarious.
@cjko oh a thousand percent overthinking :D Lots and lots of that, morning, noon and night -
@cjko said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
If in any case that happened, I will probably drop my jaw and overthink a lot.. I will contemplate and meditate , after that process, I'm surely open to anyone about that..
there's not a certain way you react to that, just be like oh ok, well noice, girls are hot to me now 🤷♀️
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@cjko I'll overthink that stuff...Eventually accept..N reach out to my bestie or most trusted friend...N then of course, start hitting on the eligible lesbians
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@WtfJudith I regenerated the situation which made me feel like gay because it comes generally after 12 as science says but if it comes after 20 years then those situation surrounding and interests make us gay or lesbian. I will try to come out of those surrounding and interests and if not I will go for hunt.
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@Vanessa-Suthica that's nice haha
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@ellie-forraine said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
I started doing weird wiggly dances in my head whenever I see anything even just faintly resembling a rainbow or rainbow colours, @What-is-this also love confusing straight people by hitting on them :D THE FACES!!! As I'm bisexual/pansexual it is even more confusing for straight people. It's truely hilarious.
@cjko oh a thousand percent overthinking :D Lots and lots of that, morning, noon and nightTrue.. well, it's really funny .. While I'm imagining the situation, it makes me laugh
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@WtfJudith said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
@cjko said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
If in any case that happened, I will probably drop my jaw and overthink a lot.. I will contemplate and meditate , after that process, I'm surely open to anyone about that..
there's not a certain way you react to that, just be like oh ok, well noice, girls are hot to me now 🤷♀️
now it's the telling people part that's a challenge 😕really? hhaha well, for me, I find it strange. Yeah, that's one big tough act to follow, telling them that you are something like that.. but it's a relief tho haha
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@DarkIce said in What if one day you'll find out that you're a gay/lesbian... how would you react and how will you tell someone?:
@cjko I'll overthink that stuff...Eventually accept..N reach out to my bestie or most trusted friend...N then of course, start hitting on the eligible lesbians
I seeeee. Yeah that's a must :)
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What if one day you're already married, have a happy family and successful life.. then you suddenly feel and realize that you are gay/lesbian... how will you react to this ?
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Legit? I'd just tell 'em the truth, I mean if they really accept me for who I am, Then who am I to reject someone that actually accepts me?
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@Jayce-Conor true.. well, it's really a piece of cake for them to know a sudden change in from you, especially those who care for you