Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Tell me what ya really think??
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@sofa_king_cody said in Tell me what ya really think??:
@bela-hella Thank you so much! There isnt enough space on this site to describe what you mean to me haha I never thought I could feel this way about anyone until I met you! Youve changed my life for the better and have made me happy for the first time in a long time when we met and to this day :) Thank you for giving me a chance! ILY too! My better half ❤
My better half ... Did mom said yes? And settle 1st tickets to Korea lol
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@bela-hella Already bought the tickets ;) We'll be there soon :)
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We've never talked, but your choice of names have been smart and fun so :+1: for you hahahah! :D
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@mr-h Thanks, Bela helps me out with 'em haha You seem fun and your replies make me laugh alot 👍😎
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@spaceboy Thanks, bela is a great person and makes me very happy :) I havent seen you around very much but I too look forward to our future interactions on here
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@spaceboy Hi spaceboy..thanks for being a good friend to me, for trusting me a lot..I dunno if aside from me someone else here knows your real name and how do u look like coz all I know im the very 1st person you laid down cards.. Always yours spacebel here and there.. :-)
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@sofa_king_cody uh..do i really have to reply? 😆
You come off as an annoying git 😝
But you're one of the sweetest people I know on here! You never give up on ur friends no matter what, you're always there for them. You try your best to cheer them up when they feel low. You're one of those few ppl I can count on!
You want me to go on or that's enough? 😊😝
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Awww you guys! ❤❤❤ You're makin me happy and sick!!!
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@wildwallflower said in Tell me what ya really think??:
Awww you guys! ❤❤❤ You're makin me happy and sick!
for sure i make you happy, but sick comes from cody whaha.. save thyself
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@bela-hella now when u say it, it does make sense!
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@wildwallflower Thank you so much :) Im glad to be a good friend to you even tho Im an annoying "git" (Never heard that one yet 😂) You are one of the best and sweetest people Ive ever known! Even though you never fail in letting me know that I can be an idiot at times 😉😂 Youre one of the few people who legit care about me and I thank you for that 😊
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@bela-hella @wildwallflower Geez, Thanks to you both for that 😂 Glad I can make you sick 😂😂
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I think that we all exist in a plastic society that worships vanity and hateful behaviours and everyone should just chill,bake and communicate.
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@sofa_king_cody i think you r sexy
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@moeedsatti he’s a guy 😂😂😂
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@moeedsatti you know his profile pic is a German Shepard right?
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@moeedsatti Behave, still a puppy..