@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.
Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha
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@wildwallflower I see. haha :D Well, it's normal to react that way.. He should never hide something from you no matter what. :)
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@cjko nope he said bad things to me
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@cjko Yes
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@wildwallflower said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@cjko nope he said bad things to me
omg! did it really hurt you ? well, stop talking to him. hahha if he bad mouthed you, ignore him. ahaha
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@barton wow.. really? you want to share why and how? ahaha
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@cjko uh..yeah i just said we don't talk much
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@cjko its classified.
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@wildwallflower okay, that's good. Do you like him?
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@barton hmm tell us
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@wildwallflower HAHHAA I mean, do you like him before he said something bad to you ? hahha :D
You sound like defensive. :p
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@cjko of course i did! Wouldn't be close if i didn't like him right :thinking_face:
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@wildwallflower hahaha :D
there you are! hmm, well, you should ignore him completely! hahaha
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btw, why are you asking about obvious things that happen to almosy anyone and makimg it to a discussion topic?
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@barton said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
btw, why are you asking about obvious things that happen to almosy anyone and makimg it to a discussion topic?
because why not? haha
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@cjko yea I have.
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@shaun-durwin that's sad to hear
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@cjko said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@shaun-durwin that's sad to hear
When it comes to it, it's all part of life... :/ If you don't get used to it or deal with it then it drags you down.
Personally I'm not weak enough to go down due to such things. ;) -
@shaun-durwin said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@cjko said in Have you ever been so close to someone but you were never in a relationship and when you both stopped talking, it felt like a breakup? hahaha:
@shaun-durwin that's sad to hear
When it comes to it, it's all part of life... :/ If you don't get used to it or deal with it then it drags you down.
Personally I'm not weak enough to go down due to such things. ;)that's the spirit! :)
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Boyyyyy
Let me tell you.
There were two guys, one was my bro (Ferny) and one was my crush (Jack).
I liked them both, we had fun, bit Ferny liked some pale chick and Jack liked me. We texted everyday, for hours and hours. He would compliment me, we ate lunch together, we had the same humor, we were perfectly matched and that was a lie,
fucking cunt face bitchafter the break, he tells me, "I don't talk to people like you" 😮😮😮,Then I ask, "What do you mean people like me?", I needed to know before I slapped him in the face for dragging me along for three months, " People who are cocky".
Excuse me
I stood there, stunned and to be honest,
Hurt.
We never dated and never have since, but that felt like utter crap, the kind where the ground was pulled from under your feet.