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The worst untold /experience
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What is worst being taken for granted or being played like a fool and why?
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@bela said in The worst untold /experience:
What is worst being taken for granted or being played like a fool and why?
Hmmmm, I kinda put the two together... :thinking_face:
I don't like either, but always have it happen... (thinking maybe need to toughen up :O )
If I had to choose, the I think being taken for granted. At least specifically here regardless of being used... the sense of remaining a helpful, thoughtful person can do no harm. ;) -
@mr_peanut. Very well said. @Bela I also would say being taken for granted, the feeling of being unappreciated is very hard on me at least to varying levels depending on who is doing it. Some I dont care about. If I care about you it leaves a pain in my heart
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Geesh those are both pretty awful :( On the one hand, being played results in hurt and shame while being taken for granted only gets you hurt. But being played usually doesn't last that long, while being taken for granted can last forever. Personally I think being taken for granted is worse.
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@mr_peanut @Tom-37
Same here,taken for granted because once we give special attention to someone our initial thinking is that we will receive even a little appreciation..Only hypocrite dont expect a somewhat called "mutual feeling". -
@justchatamy I agree with you being fool results in hurt,but being fooled does not make us fool,we become a fool when we continuously fall for the same "shit"..and the level of being taken for granted leads somehow a longer impact, thus it make it worse.
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@bela what's worst is experiencing one of that or both. LOL
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@cjko Exactly but we can manage. Tayo pa ba?d susuko
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@bela HAHAHHAAH aww. that's a sad question. haha