Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
What habit that you think was cool when your young but isnt cool now??
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When I was a little until college I had this habit of nail biting. Nail biting anytime, everywhere is a pleasure for me.. I can't even let a day pass by without it ,not just that I also tried reaching my toenails haha..I also hate nailcutter as I know I dont need it all..
It was too late before I realize it wasnt cool now fingernails are the worst part of me..Share yours
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@bela nail biting?
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@liliputian1 what do u think? Alert anu sa utak mo?
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@bela
I use to think growing my hair without taking care of it. I mean like taking no ends off, not really washing it. Using rubber bands to tie it back .....
Then after being told,”you are not coming on holiday unless you lose your hair!” And being forced to cut my hair..
I realised that it wasn’t cool...
hahaha became so vain about my hair my mates wished they never got me to cut it hahaha -
@bela hmmmm I'm shy to type it here .. HAHHA here is it: collecting my booger. HAHHAHAHA eewish. Who did that too?
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@cjko its okay haha little kulangot
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@cjko said in What habit that you think was cool when your young but isnt cool now??:
@bela hmmmm I'm shy to type it here .. HAHHA here is it: collecting my booger. HAHHAHAHA eewish. Who did that too?
Hahaha , so i wasn’t the only one :D (I was to shy to say lol and to be true my hair was long and bad hahahaha)
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@cjko haha.eww!
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@mr_peanut HAHHAHAHHA Honestly, I still have this habit now but I can control it. :)
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@bela hahahhahha hmm maybe you bit your nails after collecting booger HAHAHHA
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@cjko wait..what...haha
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@liliputian1 hahhahha I can't imagine how you say it. LOL
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@liliputian1 HAHHAHAHHAHHAHA hmmm I can control it to just a small part of it
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@cjko a big no no..pinoys are pango not all but most so i dont use to collect booger or else poor me parang gingernose lang
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@cjko said in What habit that you think was cool when your young but isnt cool now??:
@mr_peanut HAHHAHAHHA Honestly, I still have this habit now but I can control it. :)
Call me eeewish now. hahhahaPick, roll and see how far you can flick bahahahaha roflmao hahahahah
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@bela hahhahhaa it depend what on what material you use in collecting it. Like cotton buds, it won't make your nose big :D
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@mr_peanut Ok. I 've read enough of eeewish :D
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@bela said in What habit that you think was cool when your young but isnt cool now??:
When I was a little until college I had this habit of nail biting. Nail biting anytime, everywhere is a pleasure for me.. I can't even let a day pass by without it ,not just that I also tried reaching my toenails haha..I also hate nailcutter as I know I dont need it all..
It was too late before I realize it wasnt cool now fingernails are the worst part of me..Share yours
Lmao I have this nail biting habit too!!
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@blue_nebula its a tie for us, lmao..Hope your fingernails are not worst as mine..
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@cjko that's the only uncool thing i could remember i did when i was lil. I think it's normal to just pick n throw but what i find revolting is some kids eat it 😂