Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?
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@barton almost there u know hehe.actually trust and respect are combo answers..trust from calz,respect from me..
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@azriel to love!
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Basic qualities I look for are:
- Honesty,
- Trustworthiness,
- Basic understanding of sarcasm (I can barely go two sentences without sarcasm),
- An okay level sense of humor.
Making someone a friend is letting them into your life, letting them see you for who you really are, friends are as close one can come to choosing their own family.
So there has to be certain criteria... -
@im-a-bae
Honesty
Trust
Reliability
Integrity
Respect -
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@im-a-bae
Two that I forgot to mention.Friendly-ness/congeniality
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@bela trust and respect both from calz not only trust. :p
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This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
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@im-a-bae
In one word... Honesty.
If you can't trust ppl, it's hard to develop anything with them.
Ofc there are more, such as understanding, open-minded, fun, etc. But the honesty outshines everything else. -
@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@im-a-bae
In one word... Honesty.
If you can't trust ppl, it's hard to develop anything with them.
Ofc there are more, such as understanding, open-minded, fun, etc. But the honesty outshines everything else.Am i honest?
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
Am i honest?
Never said u were dishonest, at least with me. But u can be inconvenient when a sensible matter is being discussed sometimes.
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
a sensible matter
"i can write a thesis on how stupid crybabys and dramatic bitches are"
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
He shoots!
He scores!!
@Mr-H Wins!!!
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@mr-h said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
can
Everyone can, doesn't mean they will bring up something good.
my intention was clear...to make a point(which 9/10 people will disagree to)
Just being honest. -
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@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
Love you lol.dramatic? me? never!! :joy:
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@im-a-bae said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
@sup said in What Do You Value The Most In A Friendship?:
This post is beautiful :heart:
Thanks for not being a dramatic bitch @im-a-bae
Love you lol.dramatic? me? never!! :joy:
Thank god!
One more thing:
Are you facing any problems in life or TWS?
If yes make a post!
I'll upvote ;)