@kimmy159 It's a feeling.
She is expressing what her heart feels.
I doubt that she has great deep thoughts of Philosophy in her head at the time of writing.
It's her own way of coping.Let's not hammer the correctness of the piece.
Every person has their own way of seeing the world.
Doesnt mean they are right or wrong..its just how it is.
One day I believe she will remember her time with them fondly ,She will learn to live with the sorrow of their passing .
Those Good times will make her smile ,the bad things will be less imporant to her.
One day,she might even think you were right.
But for now ,her heart is raw & the wounds are agonizing.
Let us support her however we can.