@liliputian1
it all goes back to the bare knuckle fights where the crowd formed "the ring"
Posts made by Luv2Lik
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RE: Why is a boxing ring square?
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RE: What is your imagination about god?
@vahid-0
1000s of prophets ????
WTF's a prophet ??? -
RE: What is your imagination about god?
@xnaomi_cx
why apologise . . . . without people like you Ben n Jerry wouldnt be rich -
RE: What is your imagination about god?
@vahid-0
you dont know, any more than anyone else knows ....
its allllllll stuff and nonsense, invented, dreamt up, and spat out to those who were daft enough to regurgitate it towards more daft people .....
accept it and enjoy your limited time alive .... NOBODY KNOWS -
RE: Why am I still alive?
a lot of depressions comes from simply NOT knowing how to live "successfully". WE are constantly compared by people to the lives of other people and we can't be "other people". In time we do it to ourselves too. We miss out discovering what we can do, and fixate on what we cannot do. I remember going to ballroom dancing lessons with my ex-wife and having her sighing and moaning about how hopeless I was at it, then we divorced, and I met another lady. This lady knew how to follow her male dancing partner and we made a great team. When one of us made a mistake we laughed and carried on. We enjoyed our dancing. My ex-wife couldnt enjoy her dancing because she was a bully, she had no idea how to follow her dancing partner, she constantly pulled him off balance so he didnt show her up, and she kept him controlled with her sighing and moaning. Families do this to us too. They frequently compare us to other family members having expectations of us and for us which are illogical. Let people go. Be there to support them in which ever direction they have leanings towards.
The biggest controller in my life has been guilt. Guilt ladled on to me in layers by the people who raised me. Guilt for not being like other people. Guilt for being different. ( that was a big one, dished out like a sacks of wet sand stacked on my shoulders - and then laughed at for failing in my attempts to carry it all and failing to succeed in the manner that they recognised as success). Idiots.
Rejection came next. Phew, thats a heavy one for a child to work thru. A social worker described me as an "alien child" because I was the child who no one wanted, the child who was different, the child who spent lots of time on its own so it would not have to suffer the insults, the humiliation, the being laughed at, and the huge sense of not belonging anywhere. Those disgusting people knew no different, they were trained by their parents to behave like that, with a mantra that said what happens indoors stays indoors - that way, of course, they cant be corrected and proved to be wrong in their behavour.
I still repeat what I say about depression is unexpressed anger. And much of that anger is being angry at not being allowed to express ourselves without condemnation or criticsm. Learning assertiveness is tough, but most people can be taught. Sometimes we can redress the balance of power with words, words that can cut someone down so they instantly learn a new respect for us, and this too we can learn.
And there is much truth in that saying, if at first you dont succeed, try, try, try, again,
Frequently, its anothejr person, or persons, who need to change. -
RE: Why am I still alive?
@naveen067
Great Quote .... but,
someone who cant sail won't have a clue what you are talking about ..... adjust your sails incorrectly and you'll be heading for a capsize -
RE: Do you think ISLAM is a religion of terrorism ?
@it-sharish
does mutual respect include telling females to dress in a certain way, or be worth half of a man .... that's disrespect .... and many women are far superior to many men .... and teachings in schools ??? I doubt if any uk schools teach that Islam is a religion of hate -
RE: Do you think ISLAM is a religion of terrorism ?
This is good, BUT, it doesnt answer the question posed .....
Islam is not so much a religion as it is a cult. (you can look up the definition of cult)
Islam was dreamt up by clerics of the pagan tree and moon worshippers because they
wanted to form a group to compete with the christians, jews, and zoroastians, who were controlling the camel trade routes and they wanted an uncontestable story similar to the christian nativity story as a foundation. And they invented the story of the illiterate arab guy being in a cave when hey presto and angel arrives and starts spitting out mumbo jumbo supposedly from the universes creator. It's pretty obvious to intelligent minds that this is as daft as the christian nativity story so they succeeded there. I wonder where the hell this supposed cave was and havent found any specific location of it.Thing is tho, the origins of the violence in islam comes from a small group of islamists who went and attacked the camel train and robbed it of its cargo during the "safe period". The "safe period" was a period in time of several weeks when it was illegal and immoral to attack the camel train. Mohammed is supposed to have said lying and deceit is OK if it is done to support and to help islam grow, thereby sanctioning the violence used.
I suspect this Mohammed character never existed, and the "hero" of islam was called Mohammed just because that name was so popular. This might explain why later it became a capital offence to draw a figure known as Mohammed, because no one knew what he looked like.
I strongly recommend everyone interested in islam and muslims they go read the supposed lifestory of this character Mohammed, you'll see what a sick character he was. And, if you do a little searching, you'll learn that many of the top guys in islam were sick violent perverts.
Islamists will tell you that the earth belongs to Allah and therefore it is their role to convert everyone to islam or to kill them. Mohammed is supposed to have said, ask a man three times to convert to islam before killing him unless he is a jew, then ask only once before killing him. So the violence started right at the beginning of islamism.
MOhammed is also supposed to have said, when you move to a new area do nothing to draw attention to yourself, then when you have sufficient numbers cause social chaos, then later when your numbers have grown, attack, destroy, and take over.
I ask people of united kingdom, how long will it be before we get free prayer mats when we pay our council tax ??
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RE: Do you think ISLAM is a religion of terrorism ?
Well done and well said.
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RE: Bing - what a parasite
@damncuteguy
Thank You for taking your time replying. Unfortunately this action makes no difference.
Google is set as my default search engine in the Firefox Options and as my home page, I can enter a search subject in the google search bar, the google search engine goes to work, the research flashes up on the screen for a microsecond and then its completely overridden by a Bing search result which is dominated by line after line of advertiser links.I've deleted everything I can incase the coding for this is contained in some software I use but so far I havent got rid of Bing, and the Bing search results are pathetic.
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RE: Who created this universe?
@miss-e
Hilarious ... another deluded headcase -
Dressed for Summer
What a beautiful sight.
I was in town and this young mum came towards me with her youngster in a pushchair, her breasts gently moving under her cotton dress because she had chosen to not wear a bra, and when she passed it was obvious she was wearing thong. What nectar for the eyes and mind.
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RE: Why all the guys want to talk about "sex" even though they know that they can't do that through their screens or at least watching porn would be a better option. Still they ruin anonymous chat sites, WHY THE FUCK IS THAT!?
@ash1710
males are sexual beings, havent you noticed the animal kingdom, always wanting to propogate, we are made to be this way, we are always chancing our arm to test the ladies out, ladies get to say Noooo ...... -
Bing - what a parasite
anyone managed to get rid of Bing, the pathetic search engine.
cant use google search in Firefox anymore cos Bing over rides it .....
anyone know if removing and reinstalling Firefox will remove it ??? -
RE: Who created this universe?
@peer-saib
dont be stupid - no such thing as allah - allah was dreamt up by tree-worshippers with absolutely no proof, and only became popular after the cult started sharing out the spoils of war and dividing up the kidnapped females as sex slaves, and, introduced that anyone wishing to leave the cult could be killed ..... rearraangeg the letters of allah and it spells LaLah and thats where all religions belong ... LaLah Land .... :relaxed: -
RE: Who created this universe?
@sarah
who cares ... its well fucked up no matter what created it -
RE: The annoying things boys do
@willow
2 Billion pictures of naked bodies online ... why bother askin in here -
RE: Looking for mature friendly ppl to chat with (no hornys, sexting, nudes, PG-18, etc)
I'm more than mature - I'm fermenting .... :white_frowning_face:
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RE: The annoying things boys do
most annoying things girls do every day of their lives is criticise guy - as if they are so perfect eh ....
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RE: Can someone tell me what in the World is this site?
this site is trying to be too much ... random chat is more or less a waste of space, just a few guys and they dont speak ... random chat places are usually good for gays to get pervy, wont be any ladies there .....