@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.
my life is at stake
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I've found my husband cheated on me, via mailing... she is his coworker, and i think I've gone crazy and started to stalking her through social media.
I've used her pictures and created a fake profile on dating sites where I offered sex service for free and giving her home address and sending an anonymous letter to her husband...
she asked help from Postal police and I was found out...
now I'm under penal process, we are followed by a friend lawyer.
buthe said the damages are very high and I have to pay her (husband's lover) over 10000 dollars.
we have two kids and i don't work.
my husband is very understanding, he said the. money are not a problem (for me it is a huge problem, how can we go on living if there's no money?).
I've realised my life is full of unresolved issues especially for the repressive education of my parents and it seems my purpose is to sabotage the chance of happiness my life offered to me.the worst is that my anger is totally diverted to this woman...
ii feel there's a huge part of me that is toxic, but how can I improve myself?