Do men treat sex as "you are a love sleeve for me" and ignore your orgasm or wants?
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so is it
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@austinclyde okay. Pretend I am your 10 year old daughter. How would you coach sex?
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@austinclyde ahhhh! But. As a parent, it is your Expected job to teach me. No wiggle room. Society Norms EXPECT you to teach your kid, not the school, not the church and DEFINITELY not by your kid learning on their own!
@austinclyde, your embarrassment is a clue to your responsibility and wanting to avoid it, yes?
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Hey do you guys wanna talk in a private chat?
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Most men love female orgasms. Seeing them is just the best. And how do you get a woman to orgasm? Well depending on her character, but in general its not bad advice to not ignore her
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@petrapark3r ahhh.....an Enlightened Self! So, how do we go about teaching this? School sex-ed failed and having your parents talk about sex...ick!
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@petrapark3r ahhh.....an Enlightened Self! So, how do we go about teaching this? School sex-ed failed and having your parents talk about sex...ick!
Yap, sex-ed is total bs. They tell you that you can be anything, and give you a banana to stick a condom on. Then they fail to tell you that you have a 2% chance of getting pregnant in a single year when using condoms correctly and an equally great chance of getting some STD. And instead of giving you even a bit of relationship advice they show you the mechanics of sex. It seems to sex educators human beings are simply emotionless puppets.
Sorry for the rant. Yeah.
Well, bringing up the question every now and then on a sexxxy platform such as this is not a bad start
. Finding people who can talk more relaxed about sex and helping their content get viral might be another good idea...
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It all depends tbh on the person and the moment i can explain if u want
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@petrapark3r no sex ed instructors are not soul-less, they are the teacher that is forced to teach the class while the principal and the faculty worry n pray about the "Parent Backlash" cause the school was too "forward thinking " but the parents are too nervous to teach the kid.
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@austinclyde please, what are Your thoughts?
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@petrapark3r I take it that sexxy platform has to complete with youtube, twitter and "short-attention-span"?
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@Sabo-go-thud well in my experience finishing a woman or just hearing her moan drives u absolutly nuts its like an overdrive switch which makes u wanna keep going but in some cases when u dont wanna have sex u try to finish as fast as possible so its over and ya sex ed failed us all in describing what a woman needs, yes women can be complicated but theirs a list of desires that need to be comunicated and if women told us this itd be easier and we dont fully understand ur body so u gotta explain and show us snd in exchange u get what u want
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@Sabo-go-thud ya true
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@Sabo-go-thud we do care but we dont know everything if we had a guide wed use it
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@austinclyde are you sure on that Giude? I seem to recall the Guide was what all the "guys" told you, in their stories and their "conquests " And never did say if it worked or not.
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@Sabo-go-thud most are bs and lies to make them selves look better and every woman is different so their would have to be a guide for each one
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@austinclyde true. But you have to admit, if you went through the public school system. ......the "guys guide" was most trusted until 25+ So, the problem is both who to trust AND getting our parents and teachers over the embarrasment of s e x.
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@Sabo-go-thud true lol
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@Sabo-go-thud said in Do men treat sex as "you are a love sleeve for me" and ignore your orgasm or wants?:
@petrapark3r no sex ed instructors are not soul-less, they are the teacher that is forced to teach the class while the principal and the faculty worry n pray about the "Parent Backlash" cause the school was too "forward thinking " but the parents are too nervous to teach the kid.
You are right about the poor teachers. But by sex educators I was mostly intending the people who make the syllabus, you know the state officials and politicians who drive the nonsense.
I think sex-ed often comes a bit too early. But then again it's a difficult time, with the media being sex-polluted like never before and kids being half educated about how sex works through internet porn from the age of 5 upward.
I don't think most parents really know about the topic either. I think the whole populus is a bit undereducated in how to really enjoy it, and a bit overeducated in how its not quite so enjoyable. And a bit confused with the whole genderism and related nonsense.
And the idea of marriage, of giving truly yourself to the other, without any reserves, without a backdoor to escape from, is being treated like its a second class choice. And yet, if an orgasm was really about "giving yourself" to your partner, it gets even deeper, better. I mean sure there are different kinds of things that can be enjoyable. But this one definitely is an undervalued one. Monogamy doesn't just create boring sex over time, it also allows you to know the other better, and create deeper feelings. It's all up to you, wether you walk forward in a marriage or backwards. Not a bad idea to educate yourself.
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@Sabo-go-thud thatd be hella aqward idk how i would its not something u coach its something u learn and understand by doing
