Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱



  • Hiii

    Long story short i had a best friend who i looved ; we got into a fight (not for the first time) ; and I get a little serious about it for a while.

    He blocks me and I was sad for a few hours. Then the thing that surprises me happens.

    I just lost all emotional attachment to him. There was no anger, no hurt, no hatred.
    It was like my chest (you perv! -.-) was suddenly emptied of all it's contents 🤔 (if you know what I mean...)
    This was surprising because he had always been really important for me and i loved him like family.
    I recognized a minute quantity of sadness, but it did not seem to be about him.

    I am really surprised by this. Because i expected myself to atleast be sad for a little longer, or maybe start missing him after I start thinking straight. But no, the emotions just vanished (😱😱😱).

    I don't have much experience about things like this and this makes me feel weird lol. I just want to know if it's happened to someone and if it's weird at all o.o


  • Gamers

    @Kana yes!!

    kana that means u just level up in life game

    Btw Its happened with me like 4-5 times, I cried a lot in night, wet my pillow, n ready to face new day or feels less pain.. Idk u cried or not, but tears makes me stronger then before( thats not means emotionless)
    And it feels wired.. At first (I really understand that was wired rn, coz I don't over think of myself that time). But now its normal to me 🙂 peace ✌ (and sleep well, my daughter)



  • @Kana

    Some ppl react stuff in their own ways. It might even be a thing you do without realising, like a mechanism of defense... as in you realize a lot of pain and suffering are coming your way so you numb yourself and don't feel a thing.
    I don't know you well enough so take this with a grain of salt...



  • @Kana Maybe you just got used to his shit 😂 If he is your best friend he should never block you, that's rude as hekk



  • @Kana you should wait a bit longer.maybe you'll miss him then.



  • @Kana Sad to hear first of all, maybe you’re just shocked rn because speaking from experience, when I go blank after something that happens like that I’ll start to feel it all as time goes by and miss them hella loads, especially when I’m alone and like damn yaar I need him rn



  • @Kana LoL it's nice that you don't hold any grudges against him. And that chest line cracked me up😂😂



  • @Sasuke33

    Btw Its happened with me like 4-5 times, I cried a lot in night, wet my pillow, n ready to face new day or feels less pain.. Idk u cried or not, but tears makes me stronger then before( thats not means emotionless)

    Sounds like heartbreak. It was different for me. I did not feel anything .🤔
    Thanks mom ((:



  • @Jeff9998 said in Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱:

    @Kana LoL it's nice that you don't hold any grudges against him. And that chest line cracked me up😂😂

    Hehe we're on good terms now lol



  • @Alte said in Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱:

    What was the "stuff" that vanished?

    Feelings lol. I don't feel any attachment when i should've been feeling it theoretically.


  • Music Lovers

    @Kana said in Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱:

    Hiii

    Long story short i had a best friend who i looved ; we got into a fight (not for the first time) ; and I get a little serious about it for a while.

    He blocks me and I was sad for a few hours. Then the thing that surprises me happens.

    I just lost all emotional attachment to him. There was no anger, no hurt, no hatred.
    It was like my chest (you perv! -.-) was suddenly emptied of all it's contents 🤔 (if you know what I mean...)
    This was surprising because he had always been really important for me and i loved him like family.
    I recognized a minute quantity of sadness, but it did not seem to be about him.

    I am really surprised by this. Because i expected myself to atleast be sad for a little longer, or maybe start missing him after I start thinking straight. But no, the emotions just vanished (😱😱😱).

    I don't have much experience about things like this and this makes me feel weird lol. I just want to know if it's happened to someone and if it's weird at all o.o

    Its alright to get detached to people that easy and fast.


  • Freedom Writers - Writing

    @Kana

    You say,

    i expected myself to atleast be sad for a little longer, or maybe start missing him after I start thinking straight. But no, the emotions just vanished (😱😱😱).

    This is exactly how i felt when I lost my dog to the hands of death, but I think some people call this as being emotionally numb (I don't know if this is a good or a bad thing), but that doesn't mean the love I had for my dog (and you for him) is fake. That's all I know about it. Honestly, I feel the concept of emotions are pretty strange and unpredictable to me, because feelings are illogical. But that doesn't mean they're here for nothing, and we have emotions to figure out things that we can't do with logic,

    IMO.

    Peace! :))

    P.S: Does anyone know why this sudden vanishing has occurred?



  • @Kana lolz



  • What was the "stuff" that vanished?



  • @Kana I have also experienced these feelings when friends whom I considered close have stopped talking to me and blocked me. But I have realised gradually that maybe we don't deserve the people who blocked us or they don't deserve us. Anyways, I don't care who stays or leaves coz God knows whom to keep in our life



  • @Zen00 said in Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱:

    @Kana Maybe you just got used to his shit 😂 If he is your best friend he should never block you, that's rude as hekk

    Lol!! 😂😂😂 Maybe that's it.



  • @OctoPussy said in Holy cow!!! Vanishing emotions and stuff 😱:

    @Kana you should wait a bit longer.maybe you'll miss him then.

    Hopefully not. Can't say I'm not enjoying feeling immune to emotions lol



  • @Lurker Yea sounds very probable now that i think of it that way 🤔
    Thanks : )



  • something like this also happened to me, I don’t know what this actually means tho, all I can say is to say strong (although you feel almost nothing)


  • GSP Patrol - The Proofreaders

    @Kana Maybe u were always emotionally detached...Who knows? But it's good that u have no emotions for that guy which means u don't hold any grudges against him...It's good to not feel anything esp pain 😳



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