@sonali_ind9798 I was told to be confident in doing things that I wanted and to make friends with people who'll help lift me up but was afraid to do so hence I'm regretting it now.
Is it always the best policy ???
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@mr-peanut i agree, I've done a few bad things when i was a kid, i was under my bestfriends influence, id only one friend and didn't wanna lose her, to her happy id do whatever she wanted if i said no she'd sulk n not talk and would be very painful 😅 later as i grew up i realized what she was doin and i learned to say no to such things. Better not to have a friend than havin one like this i thought.
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@mr-peanut Whahha i also edited mine..misspelled same word as yours
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@mr-peanut hahaha i noticed but then typos keep happening all the time
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@mr-peanut
I always, always ALWAYS prefer honesty, over a sugar coated lie. But that's my opinion. I prefer to be brutally hurt with the truth then to live in ignorance. They say ignorance is bliss? Fuck that, ignorance is stupidity. You gotta learn to deal with what life throws at you.
But I am also not heartless and I try to dose the truth, depending on who i'm dealing with. I certainly don't wanna hurt the ppl i'm talking with, but I will always give them the truth, but I'll try to be nice enough when i'm doing it.In the end truth is ALWAYS my policy! :v:
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@mr-h A man of honor and trustworth..proven and tested :-)
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@mr-h said in Is it always the best policy ???:
@mr-peanut
I always, always ALWAYS prefer honesty, over a sugar coated lie. But that's my opinion. I prefer to be brutally hurt with the truth then to live in ignorance. They say ignorance is bliss? Fuck that, ignorance is stupidity. You gotta learn to deal with what life throws at you.
But I am also not heartless and I try to dose the truth, depending on who i'm dealing with. I certainly don't wanna hurt the ppl i'm talking with, but I will always give them the truth, but I'll try to be nice enough when i'm doing it.In the end truth is ALWAYS my policy! :v:
Good man, that's what I like to hear.
As I mentioned about being tackful, there are always ways of being honest while trying not to be hurtful.
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@mr-peanut Honesty is not always the best policy. As a politician said ''
a person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first''. It was my signature too.
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@bela honesty is the best policy but Not always. It depends on what the situation demands, you cannot always be honest about the things you do or did. Sometimes it might even get you into trouble.
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@sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀ said in Is it always the best policy ???:
@bela honesty is the best policy but Not always. It depends on what the situation demands, you cannot always be honest about the things you do or did. Sometimes it might even get you into trouble.
I throw this back to you..you said it depends on the situation,now i said it depends on the persons opinion.. 😀
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@bela If the situation demands that you don’t be honest, think of the consequences of your dishonesty.
- Though we may loss for being honest, always listen what your heart say.
- Your brain is a egocentric where as your heart say to be a human which differentiate one from an animal.
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@DayShifter Honest is the way to be, however there is also discretion. Discretionary honestly and how when to apply it in social situations is a valuable skill.
