Fear of what, her no longer considering you her friend? Ignoring the signs and distancing yourself is a sure road to the decay of a friendship, whereas you asking her what is happening is yet to be discovered. There could be a myriad of possibilities - while your assumption could be right, what if she is going through hardships (which could affect her emotional state and thus explain her harsh words), and she needs you the most now? Take the initiative, show that you care - and if it doesn't work, at least you know you've fought for maintaining it.
I dont know what to make from this
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Some time ago, i made a pretty big mistake and wondered about things. One of those things was, how big my influence really is...hom much of a difference my oppinion makes. Because i sometimes just have the feeling to loose control over a situation, like an argument, and later on I feel guilty for not acting properly in that moment. And so, I have a big problem, when something doesnt go acording to my plans...so i just wanted to ask, what you guys think about it, or what you would advice me.
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@syler1998 i know what you feeling it happens to me as well, what i do is try get out of the situation, go cool down in my room, but if it gets to an argument and i feel guilty after i try appoligise and show them i mean it by helping them out
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@seb1 its not like iam getting angry or so...just me feeling i was wrong all allong, and my opposite partner was right
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@syler1998 yes. try compromise, listen to each other and work together is
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my advice is to carry a bottle of water,and everytime u feel the urge to loose control drink water,still not in control sit down,still not in control walk away.
only respond after 5 minutes of an incident that triggers you.
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you need to find your introvert friend.. learn from him/her.