Well imO SLO maybe send her flowers to congratulate her on the new daughter& maybe something cute for baby girl..go to baby's Rus etc ..be sincere she will see your hearts intentions I'll be one step at a time but you'll be on your way or least trying..I have 1 sibling in LA it's my sis we where always ok talking even when I hated her bfs lol and I beat down a few lol.. Good luck dude Zoltan