Dm me if you’re a girl
I’ve got a question, I won’t spam with dick picks and shit I ain’t nasty
What do you do when you’re depressed for no reason? No lol, this isn’t another self pity post.
Everyone copes differently. Personally, I just cuddle my dog, and eat cookie dough ice cream. Then, I can get my ugly cry going, it’s the besttt.
For a more serious note, whether you have depression or just straight up life troubles, if anyone ever needs a listening ear, I’m here :).
Now answer the questionnn
#1 You can’t say ‘no’. You have a very hard time declining something to people. You’d rather take on more commitments or responsibilities than utter the word ‘no’. You may think you’re being sweet, but your inability to say no will only make others take your sacrifices for granted, and hate you when you don’t help them again!
#2 You’re predictable. Everyone around you, especially your loved ones, can totally predict your behavior. And since you’re so predictable, they subtly manipulate you and get you to do what they want. You may feel manipulated and used, but you feel helpless at the same time.
#3 You’re too sweet. You’re a people pleaser, and you just can’t be rude to others. You convince yourself that you’re the sweet person in a bad world, but in reality, you may be the idealist idiot in a real world who’s too sweet and nice, and forces others to take you for granted even if they don’t realize it themselves.
#4 You postpone decisions. You’d rather make excuses or postpone issues that bother you instead of dealing with it or concluding it immediately. You may think pushing decisions away is the easy way, but in fact, it’s the spineless way of dealing with your problems.
Your family, lover or friends who understand your inability to take tough decisions may abuse that side of you and make decisions on your behalf, and manipulate you into doing something you wouldn’t want to do because they know you can’t say no anyway!
#5 You can’t confront people. If you feel like you’re being taken for granted, confront the issue. If you can’t confront the issue, you’d end up unhappy and fill your head with resentments and frustrations, which would eat you from the inside.
#6 You can’t be alone. You constantly feel the need to have someone as witness to your life. Independence scares you and you find it easier to go out of your way and be nice to someone who treats you badly instead of being lonely.
#7 You seek approval. You constantly need this person’s approval to do anything at all, be it to go out with your friends or do something for the first time. When someone starts to take you for granted, without realizing it, you’d allow them to emotionally control you and use you as they please. And before long, you lose your sense of judgment and you forget that it’s possible to independently make decisions for yourself.
If you’re somebody that believes the meat that is put on your plate is even remotely hygienic or healthy think again.
If you’re somebody that believes that eating meat is humane and can be done respectably think again.
Going vegan is a choice, a choice that makes sure animals are treated humanely and equally. You can’t kill or eat an animal and class it as humane. If you really do care for animals as much as you claim, go vegan, it’s a healthy life style, it saves the animals, it stops slaughter and murder, it protects innocent sentient beings.
Just remember the next time you eat a dinner which has meat or dairy included you’re eating rotting flesh or produce from animals you say you love.
Someone : Not to be a dick but everyone can have their own opinions and calling people who eat meat wrong or murderers solely bc you don't agree with it isn't ok. This is the same as pushing religious beliefs upon others, do you, be vegan and have your beliefs, but don't bash people who don't agree with you or try to say they're wrong. I don't agree with how animals are prepared for food, but we need protein, hence why humans have eaten meat since we existed. The way it's done now is disgusting and inhumane, but protein is a need to be healthy and it's not fair of you to bash anyone who does eat meat.
Me: you get protein more from broccoli and vegan alternatives than actual meat, plus murder has been around for as long as eating meat but that’s not justifiably humane? An animal can’t give consent to being slaughtered. I’m not calling meat eaters the murders. Nor am I calling them bad people because they’re not. They’re not bad or nasty people however instead of going along with the torture inflicted upon these animals by buying their flesh from stores you could be saving their lives. All lives are worth living. This is also like saying a Christian isn’t allowed to put a caption up about god. They can. Being vegan doesn’t harm anybody AT ALL, eating flesh from animals who are born to die does.
Someone : you're right, it's sad and not fair, and they can't consent, but pushing it on people wont ever change anyone. Just state facts nicely, just to educate others, don't make it sound so derogatory towards people who may disagree. Do it nicely and include sources where you got you're information, make people want to learn about it, pique their interests, don't just throw a bunch of your opinions at them, trust me, it makes people get defensive. Whereas if you just stated some facts and did it in a gentle way, you may end up changing someone's view on it. It's all about how you word things and how you present them.
Me : everybody has a different approach to such things and things as gross as this I present in a gross way because people don’t understand how gross what they’re eating is. I’ve tried presenting it in a nice way and etc but never works so I’m now going to do what I like within my own way that isn’t harmful just factual.
Determining whether TWS really is cancer, through you.
Number of letters in your name: This is more to do with what kind of people come to TWS more generic English names which are usually around 5 letters. Foreign names are longer than that. This can be linked to the population question where the American users are not treated as an extreme.
This is sometimes the case, but still doesn’t work because come on, obviously not all foreign names are a whole fucking sentence in themselves XD
Just with french for example, we can get names as short as Élie, Ines, Alix, medium size like Alizée or long like Annabelle, Emmanuelle, Anne-Marie, Mellyssandre
My point with names was that they'd be foreign therefore their English wouldn't be of a very good level, if you haven't noticed most of the world hates Americans (and the U.S in general) this would obviously lead to them creating conflict with those who are of American nationality, creating what we call a cancerous site.
Whether or not you live with your biological parents: Most children who live with their parents (especially those who live in MEDCs) are spoiled, therefore more cancerous, the ones who don't live with their biological parents are more likely to come here out of other reasons which differ from those who do live with their biological parents and range from depression to social interaction with people their age as they don't usually get a lot of contact with people who share their interests (as their friendship circle is small and doesn't allow a lot of variation)
I don’t see how people can be considered spoiled if they live with their biological parents. Some parents will treat their kids differently, wether (see what I did there? you better still respond ffs) or not they are biologically theirs and some adoptive or whatever parents can spoil their kids even more.
My point here is that your biological parents are going to spoil you way more than anyone else, (even the strictest of parents will do things that are for your betterment). You say that adoptive parents can spoil you as much as your biological parents, that generally is very untrue. These are the problems that can arise from living with adoptive parents:
- Interracial, skin color can make a child stand out and usually leads to mental isolation (this goes back to my point on alter egos)
- When you adopt a 3 year old (obviously there isn't a 3 year old using this website that's why I didn't mention it) there isn't a problem with them settling in, but when you talk about a 10+ year old difficulties arise because:
1 - This is the age that kids start to hit puberty and their behavioral patterns change drastically (this is why most adoptions don't work out)
2 - Change in culture, not to mention the parents have little to no knowledge about the childs background. This can range from the kind of meals they get to the type of society/neighbourhood they're brough into.
- Other members of the family (the adoptive parents real children) not everyone is acceptive to everything that happens around them, this can sometimes also break out into physical fights.
And yes, I did see what you did there. Very cheeky.
I’ll take the example of one of my closest friends who was adopted when she was around 2 because her bio mother in Romania wasn’t able to properly take care of her so she ended up in Canada. Her adoptive parents sent her to a private school, they go on vacations all the time and have a super cozy life now. I never realized she was adopted till she told me about it.
"When she was around 2" my point exactly, I talked about the influential ages above.
So whether you’re with your bio parents or not isn’t relevant to your cancerous level
Number of Siblings: Individuals with a lot of siblings will tend to escape from their family circle via the internet as they would get tired of having to deal with annoying siblings (in large families one child doesn't get as much attention as a child with 0-2 siblings does as the parents have less responsibility). The ones who live with more siblings will be more short-tempered as their daily lives have more contact with people, therefore making them more cancerous.
Now the logic with this just doesn’t work. You say that people who live with their biological parents are cancerous because “they’re spoiled” but people who are an only child are generally a lot more spoiled than those with many siblings. (Generalization ok)
They are spoiled, you said it yourself, your friend lives a 'cozy life'. In some case (very extreme cases) the adoptive parents spoil the kids way more than their real parents ever could, this of course is bad and very harmful.
When you have many siblings, it’s like living with your mini simulation of a real life society where you have to deal and collaborate with the others in the house. This means that in the long therm, your patience is supposed to be way more developed and you’re used to your siblings acting like immature little twats, so you would know how to act more civilized in a situation where people are acting immature on TWS
I said this before, and what you're saying here "where you have to deal and collaborate with the others in the house. This means that in the long term, your patience is supposed to be way more developed and you’re used to your siblings acting like immature little twats" agrees with what I'm trying to say. We have to realize that everyone comes to the internet to escape from their real-life, when someone who has to deal with something like annoying siblings everyday comes to the internet this is usually where they take their anger out, once again linking to my point on alter egos.
The population of your country: This is because people who live in places with a higher population are likely to have friends as they are generally exposed to a larger amount of people, that would make them more experienced with people which could create alter egos that could be cancerous (they always are), they come about because the human mind tries to escape from the daily routine by adding a little stimulation that the individual isn't used to experiencing (no one would go to a stranger and tell them to suck their dick).
Living in a country with a larger population has no impact on how many friends you have.
Ok so, when you live in a country with a higher population that usually means that you're school/workplace generally has more people in it and it is easier to break into a group of people who will become your friends. I know you talk about this below but I'm getting there.
First of all, sure what if I lived in a country of over 100 million people for example, but I stay in a city with only 50k people in it?
There isn't any country in the world that has a population of 100m and a city with a population of 50k.
Now we’re mostly teenagers here, so what if we went to a small school with not that many students in your class? The population of your country doesn’t necessarily have an impact on the number of people you’re exposed to
I get your point, but, In a school with a smaller amount of people everyone is more likely to get along since there would be a smaller community and everyone would be familiar with each other (as they would share a lot of classes, schools under a certain population usually close down because they can't afford a specific teacher for each students chosen subject when there are only like 7-18 students, moreover a school this small wouldn't offer very good education as the higher-ups are going to care very little about something that makes them minimal profit, if you're talking about a government school those are usually garbage in most countries.
Then there’s the fact that in most cases your number of friends has nothing to do with how you would act over the internet.
Here's a guy explaining his experience on friends, this is getting lenghty so I'm restricting how much I write.
I’m sorry but I didn’t quite catch what you meant when you said people with more friends create alter egos and all that..
Hopefully after reading my answer from above helped you understand, if it didn't just ask somewhere else since this is too long already.
So in conclusion, your idea of a test to see how cancerous people on TWS are was good,
but I don’t quite agree with the way you played it out since I don’t see how most of these questions relate to how you would act.
That's absolutely fine, I appreciate a whaman who can keep me talking.
A lot of them are things people can’t control (like your name or the population in your country, etc) and don’t have much to do with how people react on TWS
True but these are things (like the environment which you grew up in, which you also don't control) which shape who you become.
I would suggest to give people real situations and based on the way they say they would react (if it’s considered a “cancerous” response or not) give a certain point system like you did
If we did that we would be here until the Milkyway collides with Andromeda (4.5 billion years from now)
Not to mention people aren't going to give truthful answers to the questions to make themselves look good, what I did gives the test-taker anonymity, which is something that the internet is built on.
Holy fuck that was long..
MORAL DILEMMA, VOTE IF YOU’RE A LOSER
@ᴍᴀʀs i ll send my girl to jail, then i will kill someone too so both of us will be on the jail. Perfect ending.
Perfect ending is that most prisons are separated by gender
I'll bribe the polices to get along with my girl~
I’ll probably get raped if I’m mixed up with guys in a prison
I'll bring you in my own private room girl