Am I doing something wrong?
As a guy my advice would be don't stop pushing him to give you more attention. Long distance relationships are really difficult to make it work and for guys when the lady is not around to satisfy some thirst we begin to lose interest. It's better to push him. If he really loves you he will put in some extra effort but please appreciate his efforts all the time
You are NOT asking for ALOT, you are just asking the WRONG person
@ragnar Wrong person can never be the right person, even when you put all your effort to make them yours, make them feel special, or love everything about them, even their flaws and imperfections. He will leave you in a vulnerable condition. He will hide things from you. He will think that you don't "understand" him, even when you try your best. He would NEVER acknowledge your efforts. You'll end up begging , crying, losing yourself. So it's better, achieve the aim of your life first. The right one will meet you when the the time comes. BE HAPPY, KEEP SMILING!!!
Which is more important? Talent or hard work?.
Mary has talent
Bob has no talent
Mary works less and can achieve what she wants
Bob needs to work hard to achieve what he wants
For Mary, work is easy
For Bob, work is hard
Mary is happy
Bob is also happy (how?), since he works hard he can feel satisfied with his hard work
Mary can achieve more with less effort and feel good about herself
Bob can achieve the same with more effort and also feel good about himself
Some people are gifted, some aren't
When you ask if talent or hard work is more important, I say they're both important
But when you have talent, things are easier for you
Listen to me Boots
Boots. I know you have been upset recently. And I know that the thought of us being together for a week has freaked you out. But handsome I also know that with this past week going by that I have begun to fall for you even more. I know you can not possibly see what I see in you but I also know that I can try to attempt to show you. Remember when we first met you told me you've been through a lot. From that moment I knew I would love to get to know you. From that moment I knew that you were stronger than me. From that moment I knew that you were also going to be trouble. More like to trouble like oh sheit I'm falling in love. The kinda trouble where I can't get you out of my head. The kind of trouble where I know you probably deserve someone as strong as you. The kind of trouble where I worry that I will lose you. All these things worry me and I can not comprehend that you would even consider being the slightest bit worried. You are so handsome. So smart. You could do anything you put your mind to! So why don't you put your mind to yourself handsome? And I'm not talking about all the bad shit your mind wants you to believe. I mean all the good stuff that everybody else sees. Pretend to be the mirror showing off the reflection of what others see you as and not what those horrible thoughts do. Show yourself who you really are and believe handsome. Believe as much as everyone else does in you. Handsome listen to me and trust me when I say this and no matter what I will always mean this. You are enough. You are enough for everything and everyone! You are more than enough for me your are the best thing I can honestly say that has ever happened to me. I really don't want to lose you because your mind wants to play tricks on you. Boots. Don't let one mistake get you down. Lift your chin up. Look to the future. Please don't be upset over a simple mistake. Relationships are not always gunna be happy and fun loving and all giddy. It's like having a job. You gotta work to keep the other person. You gotta work to make them happy. Sometimes you gotta swallow your pride. Sometimes you gotta bend down to help pick them up. But in the end it is worth it because they are still yours. They are still there fighting to be with you as well. It's all about effort and handsome I hope I'm showing plenty of effort right now. I hate seeing you so upset because I can not imagine your mind even thinking of those things to tell you. And I am sincerely sorry for your past and I understand that that is why you are some ways that you are and I can live with that but handsome you gotta listen to me about this one. I may not be right about everything( jk I'm a woman I'm always right) But I can say without second guessing myself that everything I am saying is true. you are enough. I love you Boots and if your willing to fight for me I'm your loyal soldier.
COME PRAISE OUR LORD ✨
to be added i must, I gave effort into this I did,
Male born year 91' virgin and single :(
Too much effort lol. He is not looking to get hitched.
I NEED HELP LEARNING TO BE AN INTERNET-ER
I shall make an effort to share my knowledge, padawan.
Time to celebrate!!!
@lucifer_ thanks hommie , i really appreciate ur effort