how to handle pressure
how to remain calm when things are confusing and you are not able to relax
Hoping to give and receive advice on my and other people's love lives. My problems are sad and stupid.
@iwant2believe This guy I like asked me out on a dare. I said no, because I suspected it was a dare. Later I found out from a mutual friend that he liked me and just succumbed to the pressure to ask me out at the time of the dare, the feelings were genuine. I basically ignored this information because he had been acting like none of it ever happened.
Fast forward 2 months. He is now dating my friend. I have to be happy for her because she's my friend. They break up after a week. He proclaimed to our mutual friend in class, in front of me, that he was pretty much fine with it because he was used to his heart being broken. By me, apparently, and by our mutual friend much earlier. (They're perfectly good friends now and there were never any hard feelings.) She had broken up with him then said she wanted him back on April Fool's Day because she had succumbed to the pressure of dares from our classmates.
So now, I have to sit in class with him (ALL DAY) and pretend nothing ever happened. This continues for six months, during all of which he liked me, according to my friend, who he tells everything.
I had to pretend it never happened because he would think I had turned him down earlier out of spite if I told him anything.
In May, I found out that he had written a song and was planning to sing it to me, in public, on either my birthday or the last day of school. He eventually just planned to do it on the last day of school at the beach. Everyone but I and a friend went to the beach. Not being supposed to know about it, I couldn't just march up to him and say "I'm not going to the beach. Bye." So he went to the beach and was disappointed when I didn't show up.
IF you can make sense of this, message me with your opinion so far and ask for the rest of the story. Thanks for caring even the tiniest bit.
Looking for jessica
If you’re about for a chat that would be great no pressure
Need of a girl to share my feelings
I am in need of girl to share my feelings and thoughts to free from my pressure
Is Marriage obsolete?
I feel it can put unnecessary pressure on couples, not just the cost but also expectations and maybe unrealistic demands.
why do being loved arouse anxiety?,why do so many people respond with distrust and anger to being loved?
why do long term commitments spooke us
why do praises make us angry
why is there fear of intimacy
why do we feel pressured by someones love
When is the best time to do homework?
Yeah the day before is always the right time for me the pressure of knowing it is due soon makes it easier for me to actually focus and get it done.