What's your walking like a badass song?
Mine's currently Grounds for Divorce by Elbow but could always use some more!
Woman who overdominated her husband
We are together for over 18 years.
He's very obedient now, my guess is because he doesn't have grounds. But I don't want him anymore, in terms of sex.
My options: I either lose my domination
or: I stay the same as I was all along but try smth else
More info: I'm the breadwinner, he hasn't worked for about 17 years now. Given this, he insists on treating me like a royal by buying caviar and stuff, which is of course going off my account (to which he's got access, but there is still MY money which I maybe want to spend somewhere else)
And this is weird - he's buying me stuff out of my money, but presenting it like "hey babe, look at this fcking unbelievable bouquet I've bought you!"
My question is - how do I bring him down to reality without looking like a witch? And how could I send him to work?..
Anyone got into smth similar? LMK!
Kicked my wife's friend out. am I wrong
1.you work away from home a lot,which makes you emotionally and physically unavailable a lot.
2.u give her as much freesom as possible-good,but sometimes its the companionship thats needed the most.
4.u accused her of having an affair without concrete proof -are you out of ur mind??u pull such stunts only if u really want a divorce....u r bloody wrong
5.u adopted a child 1 year ago...and u r never around coz u work away ?u know how much help u need with a child ...that might have been the first trigger for becoming distant with you.
6.ur wife goes to court with this woman..because this woman is a divorcee with 2 kids..ur wife relates with her situation...comeone r u telling me u really dont understand this.
they identify with eachother on the grounds of loveless marraige and divorce and kids,..would u accuse her of having an affair if both of them were straight?or are u saying lesbians can never have a friendship with other girls without having sex with them?..geeezzzzzz....
7.she wont stop being friends with her?-do u mean to say she has to cut off her friendship bcoz u r insecure???
that woman is not the problem..u have realised ur marraige is falling apart long before that and u also know the reason for that..that is why you started this paragraph by saying 'i work away from home a lot'...and u know u havent been really a good wife to ur wife recently wich makes your heart filled with insecurity and doubt and makes you accuse the love of ur life of 12 yrs of an affair....this is such a shame.
Hey you, yes you!...
So i went through alot of posts in here and found out many users are loners, need someone to cheer them up, need a bf or gf just to make them feel good, someone who can appreciate them as how they are inspite of their flaws. We all came from different back grounds and we all have heart touching story. Just because someone smiles doesnt mean he or she is happy!
So to all with the feeling that no one is there for them, we always here for u, i believe one man can change the world! We all at certain point face some pain and mybe some peoples dont knw how pain really works on us!!
Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces. I feel good since i started spreading my wings tbh.
You knw sometimes i think that we are like stars. Something happens to burst us open; but when we burst open and think we are dying; we’re actually turning into a supernova. And then when we look at ourselves again, we see that we’re suddenly more beautiful than we ever were before! Trust me thats how it works you just need to trust ur self and be positive
Also put this in your mind. Do not let the memories of your past limit the potential of your future. There are no limits to what you can achieve on your journey through life, except in your mind. We all need to control oir mind and be positive all the time, believe that you are legend and you will become one! Or else you can be negative and suffer in this thing called "life"
Btw It's never too late to change your life for the better. You don't have to take huge steps to change your life. Making even the smallest changes to your daily routine can make a big difference to your life.
Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.
Now who is ready to spread his wings?? Cmon guys!