I cant take it anymore
my dad is verbally and physically abusing me. <\3
I have marks on my body and also have lie about it, he does it to my mom as well but not as often anymore
my friends dont even seem to give a flying fuck.
i had to get this off my chest, sorry for swearing
Choose a game you love (or tolerate) in each category!
@bushmurry 1 - First Person Shooter - I'd say... Hmmm... Maybe the Killzone series (Except for Shadowfall... That was complete shit... Lol) That's the only one that kinda stands out to me for some reason. The rest are just plain simple shooters... I'm A open world RPG type of guy. But maybe Battlefield is A good exception as well. (COD can just... Die... Please...) OH! But maybe TF2 as well! (But I can't play that anymore because their matchmaking system is terrible now...)
2 - Platform Game - Honestly... I don't really have any particular favorite Platform game. My games use 'Elements' of platforming, (Like most do.) but never really played A "Full on" Platform game for the fun of it. It really just depends... But to me, the whole genre doesn't seem like "Game of the Year" material anymore...
3 - Fighting Game - Again... Not A huge fan of this genre just for the fact that it's just all the same. (Like most FPS's.) But it's still fun as hell sometimes! So I'd say, Either Mortal Kombat X or Tekken 7. These games are both great and exceptional games that are fluid and fun. I use to like playing the WWE games with my brother. But they arn't really 'Great'.
4 - Racing Game - Use to love Grand Turismo. (Grew up with it with my PS1 and 2. Lol) But not very appealing to me anymore. I usually just race occasionally on GTA Online. (Because who doesn't?).
5 - Role Playing Game - A toss up with either Fallout 4, GTA V, Witcher 3 and Mount & Blade. (So many! You can't make me Choose!!! I won't let you! Cowers)
6 - Strategy Game - Oh BOI! XCOM man is so fucking fun! Lol... (Played the older ones and Enemy Unknown is still my favorite!) But I love when my RPG games have some elements of Strategy implemented in them as well. Civilization series arn't too bad. Also Age of Empires... Love that game so much when I was younger. (Probably one of my first PC games I can remember)
7 - Sports Game - Really just depends... This genre has none of my "Go to games" But they are fun to past time. So I'd say when I have it installed and not lagging my ass off on PC. Rocket League is fun. But I never mind kicking somebody's ass on A Fifa game or two when a person ask's me to play with them. Lol.
Sorry I type too much... Lol...
Why do people delete their posts and topics?
First off, because they can.
Second off, people either think their posts aren't relevant anymore; don't want to deal with people replying anymore, or they drunk/stoned posted.
There are many reasons, but none should be explained because it's a tool of free will this forum has in place.
Wanting to leave the website..
I've made some friends here. But this chat eats at my time and i'd rather not care for the people here anymore. I won't give specific reasons other than public chat is a handful that I don't wish to bother with anymore. If anyone opposes me leaving, leave a reason. Otherwise, see you all on something else.
What song will make you cry uncontrollably and why?
@beetle313 i have sad songs but i rarely get sad anymore. It is not that i am all happy and fine i am just too busy to be sad if you know what i mean, i am stressed from the busyness which made me cry once but anything else does not make me feel sad anymore and i kind of miss it and so now i have no songs that make me cry but i do know songs i used to ingest to help me cry. Some examples would be the original Mr.Lonely by Bobby Vinton, "Fix You" by coldplay, "High Hopes" by Pink Floyd, "The Sound Of Silence" by Simon and Garfunkel... shit like that, you know.... the classics
What to do about this?
@danaliz-cabello If you're saying that you're about to break up with someone, then:
If you think that you're drifting apart, tell him and break up.
If he's started to become rude or has a sudden mood change and doesn't respect you anymore, ask him if there is anything wrong, because there might be something he isn't telling you.
Or, if you simply don't want to be around him anymore and want to end it there, just say that you have grown apart, and leave.
However, if someone has just dumped you or you have dumped them, then:
If you didn't want it to end, grab a gallon of low-fat ice cream, or whatever makes you feel better, and have a comedy movie marathon, since laughter is the best medicine, with or without friends.
Or if you were happy with this breakup, go throw a "yay he's gone" party.
What are the most common reasons for friendships to fall apart?
Relationships in general fall apart because of mistrust, misunderstanding, and simply because living with someone is hard, really hard, to care for another alongside with you could prove to be just a drag down, that's why at one point we prefer to just walk away.In my opinion, how long can you endure these defines what kind of relationship you have, if you can endure all the fights and problems and stress and everything without losing your trust, and understanding of the other, and still value the times with him/her above the bad occasional times then that's love I guess. If you feel like giving up or feel like they are not so important to you/ you don't trust them completely and u'd walk away if they do you bad then that's just some friendship relationship. Though sometimes friendship can be so high as it almost gets love relationship proportions. As for me, most of my friendship relationships ended because we walked on different paths, and going back to my original idea we'd just drag each other down so it'd be better to just live on with our lives and change a word here and there instead of talking and sharing secrets and whatever all the time, and ofc I found replacements, it's cruel ik but that's just how life goes. I also got lucky enough to meet the person I love so I don't need anyone anymore to be there for me so now friendship relationships to me are more like that group of people you hang out with so you won't feel lonely but that's all there is to it. Friends are....hard to find I call many people my "friends" but there has not been more than 3 persons in my life so far i truly considered a friend, and one of them I lost due to the different path thing, the other is my lover and the third...it's already starting to rust, we talk here and there but once we lost our common passion we don't have much to talk on, since all my pain goes on ma lover I don't really need anyone's shoulder anymore so yup no more common passion nothing to talk = friendship relationship fades. Wheh that got long
Relationship advice please
So im a pregnant 22 year old. The guy who i think is the dad just recently decided he wanted to be apart of me and my daughters life. We had been on and off for 2 years before we decided with one last night of regret that we would officially end things. Well i then ended up pregnant. After he left for a couple months i met someone who lives 2 hours away from me. I fell pretty hard for him but we never made anything official. i drove out to see him and then he drove out to see me and my parents. well when we decided to try and start making things more serious the ex popped up and said he wants to fix things. so me and the new guy started to distance ourselves. Well now me and the ex are a month into fixing things but as history is repeating itself, we are arguing constantly and im jealous of all of the "friends" he has. they are either exes or girls who flirt with him. (reason why we have been on and off for 2 years; also i would accuse him of cheating because of convos he had with these friends). I am now to the point where i dont think i want to work things out with him anymore and i want to focus more of my time to the new guy. i trust the new one and we have a lot in common. we can have conversations that dont end after 2 seconds. my ex and i dont have much in common and we hardy ever talk about anything other than arguing. The new guy has already said that he would adopt my daughter as his own and wants to move where i am to be with me. ex hasnt helped with anything. hasnt bought anything for my daughter. spends most of his money on his car or hanging out with his friends. though he is making the decision of getting his own place. wants to get a place for us to be a family, but everything with him has always been broken promises. basically idk what to do anymore. if we dont become a family then he wants to go to court and make things harder on both of us. but if we stay together im scared that im going to miserable for all the wrong reasons. i feel that i should end things with the ex and be happy with the new guy. I am looking for any advice available. Please help.
Found my boyfriend cheating on me
Have been dating him for 3 years now but he had an obsessive ex girlfriend who wouldn't let him b she will text threatening me I ignore her all the time n instead talk to him but somehow I will always find out he still communicates with her so I got fed up n tired at some point n decided it's best I just let go so I cheated on him n he found out.... he criedn begged me not to break up with him n stuffs so I reconsidered my decision n still stayed thinking truly he had forgiven now this was in 2016 so I stayed with him now in July I had gone to his house unexpectedly n was hearing a girl mourning from his room I knocked n almost broke down d door he didn't open the door his friends pulled me to the kitchen to calm me down n he sneaked the girl out of his room n told me it was his friend in his room not him I fought him verbally n we argued I left now on Saturday I was going through his phone n I saw a funny conversation with him n some other 2 chics I took d number n added d contact to my contact n started chatting one of the girls up like I was him n I found it it was the same chic who was in the room with that night so I confronted him n he started beating me up telling me he had told me to stop checking his phone so now I know how it feels to be cheated on I left his house n continued my conversation with the girl till Tuesday night n sent him screenshots of my conversations for him to know I know it all n there's nothing for him to hide anymore my boyfriend felt no remorse or cared I was shocked n denied not having anything to do with her so I message the girl to reveal my identity n appreciated the information she had given me n she replied nice meeting u...wats your name I was confused like I didn't chat her up to be her friend so ignored n tried calling him in d morning only to find out he was on the phone with the same chic so I told her u still having a conversation after knowing he has a girlfriend ... her response killed me "is there a problem" I just ignored n blocked her cux I didn't know exactly wat to say or do anymore at that point but she's not the only one he's cheating on me with they are 3 girls... I asked myself how many girls am I gonna fight n why is he holding me down spending so much money on me n talking to my parents,planning his future with me n all of that while out there he's messing around...what can I do cause I love him so much and I know he loves me but I really don't understand if it was a revenge or he's tired of the relationship n just don't know how to tell me or what
Conspiracy theorists unite!
@marija man you are woke for your age and your way of thinking seems to be heading in the right direction. Who have been taking the biggest roles in influencing your way of thinking. Like Noam Chomsky, George Carlin maybe one of the 4 horsemen of neo-atheism which are Sam Harris, Daniel D. Dennet, Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens or even maybe just some good scientists like Neil DeGrasse Tyson, Michio Kaku, Lawrence Krauss...
My influences are varied and include those I don't share the views of anymore. As you listed, there's Noam Chomsky who helped me become more left-wing and question US foreign-policy propoganda. Before, I was against some wars but still believed the very lies used to justify many of them. At the time, I was sorta an anarchist (didn't last very long). Then, I'd have to give creds to Michael Parenti who I agree with on quite a lot of things. As far as the New-atheists you listed, I'm not a huge fan tbh. I'm probably an atheist but, like gay marriage, it's one of those issues that doesn't make me that passionate anymore.There's also several big people from history who, while many of them are im-perfect and made many, many mistakes, did lots of good.
@lasttrain94 said in Conspiracy theorists unite!:
@Marija @TheStrangest what do you two think about the whole New World Order idea, collapse of the US economy and currency, world war 3, and the whole idea of an evil cabal trying to take over the world???
With NWO conspiracies, there is usually many truths twisted into really batshit directions. Like, lets take NATO for example. I hate it and what it did to countries like Yugoslavia (now Serbia and Montenegro) and Libya. I agree that the reason they did it was not to stop what they claimed the leaders of these countries were doing (which, probably, wasn't even happening at least not on the scale claimed) but, rather, to satisfy their own economic interests which wanted the resources and labor of countries that weren't willing to submit to their will. But then there's people who claim that the US funded the KLA and attacked Yugoslavia because Albanians are majority-Muslim and this is an evil plot to attack Christians or some crap. Same with anti-Jewish conspiracies. Yes, there is an un-equal economic system but it's not because Jews. Also, many times, Illuminati seems to be a label put on real organizations. Why bother? Just call them NATO, EU, etc.
Basically, what I'm saying is a lot of people who talk about things like the NWO take truths and things I agree with but fantasticize them with fictional elements like plots to turn people gay or aliens or Jews and Muslims are trying to do every single little bad thing in the world or other crap like that.