this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
Kicked my wife's friend out. am I wrong
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@losingmymind I know it is hard to be alone with a child. I pay to send him to a private pe primary school which he loves and pay someone to come and clean and do laundry twice a week so my wife can ride her bike go to shops and gym and have time to go have coffee and visit friends
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@losingmymind regarding ur wife bringing someone else into your house without disussing with you is wrong...i agree with it.
"pay someone to come and clean and do laundry twice a week so my wife can ride her bike go to shops and gym and have time to go have coffee and visit friends"this sentence makes me feel like u r complaining about the fact that u r working while she having a good time with no care in the world.
i hope u havent used this same sentence with ur wife..because thats going to make her feel useless and thats a big kick on the crotch of her self esteem.
this is like indirectly telling her how she is wasting away ur money while u r denied of all those happiness elements and u r working hard.
if u have this kind of complex...thats is the most sharpest knife thats going to murder ur married life.may be u can find a job that pays less and do less spending on shopping and gyms and stuffs and more on spending time with eachother.
looks like u r very unhappy with how life is going on for you...this will lead to disaster..until u find a way to deal with it.
also a family is not a one persons job...its something that is made by two people who love eachother and the fruits of their love...from everything u have said ..it makes me feel like u r taking all the credit and i think u feel u have the right to take it because u r the one who is providing financial support to them.
u r miserable and u r taking it out on others...u must find a way to make urself happy...may be move from south africa to a place with better job opportunities or something...
im not trying to be offensive ,i can easily tell you that hey i feel for you...im sorry u r gng through this even after all the hard work u do...ur wife is ____....whatever ,that might make u feel better but it will also reenforce the part where u think u r right.
any kind of dispute in any sort of relationship arise because each person thinks that they are right without standing in the shoes of the other.
you see it easy to break off a relationship but its very difficult to find love ,think of all the happy moments u guys had together..is whatever happening now worth that..think of the time u fought against the world to be with eachother..isnt that worth something?
ur wife needs someone to be with her,u r unavailable,,,,she found someone she thinks fills the void to an extent..and then u reacting this way is making her stubborn..she is also not thinking it through..just remember its easy to break but very difficult to mend....
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Dude. I just think you're insecure. The only part that was wrong here is that your wife didn't pay enough attention to you. Go see a therapist and get this worked out
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And by the way, I'm pretty sure @khaleezi91 is homophobic so be careful
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Sorry but you shouldn't air your troubles with your wife. It will only continue to harden your heart. I have personally had my husband air our problems and it makes me livid that he wasn't man enough to talk with me. Set aside a time and calmly tell her wat you are thinking and why it makes you insecure. But don't ever trash a woman to anyone because he'll has no furry like a woman who feels disrespected.
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@alwaysstranger i was about to get triggered with ur homophobic comment but then i rememebred mark twains quote "Never argue with stupid people. They will drag you down to their level, and then beat you with experience."...so im not gonna engage you.
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@khaleezi91 said in Kicked my wife's friend out. am I wrong:
@alwaysstranger i was about to get triggered with ur homophobic comment but then i rememebred mark twains quote "Never argue with stupid people. They will drag you down to their level, and then beat you with experience."...so im not gonna engage you.
You know that you can just say that you're not homophobic instead of indirectly calling me stupid for no reason, right? What, does calling me stupid suddenly disprove the possibility that you're homophobic? Get the fuck out of here
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@khaleezi91 and mark twain was an atheist and a person who hated religion for a lot of reasons and one of them is homophobia. So quoting a person who thinks the same way as i do and then calling me stupid doesn't help your case
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@khaleezi91 "religion was invented when the first con man met the first fool" - mark twain
"No god and no religion can survive ridicule. No political church, no nobility, no royalty or other fraud, can face ridicule in a fair field, and live" - mark twain
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@alwaysstranger Did u just use the f word with me>?
are u sick??seriously??this post is not even related to religion ,what is ur problem
why do u have to tag me in ur stupid dumb comments and do u even know whats the meaning of homophobic?
why do u so frequently draw people into fighting with you on religious stuffs???
what did i ever say to u for u to be such a prick?
do u even know the meaning of being a respectful human being???just because u r an atheist.. doesnot give u the damn right to become such a retarded idiot...before u type of ur stupidity lavishly ..USE YOUR DUMB INSENSITIVE BRAIN FOR ONCE and ask urself...WHY THE HELL AM I DOING THIS...did this person really say something to offend me..did this person really say something about me..or ask me for my advice or ask me for an opinion or is inviting me for a chat....u dont need to be a believer to behave respectfully to others ...so please find it in ur heart to avoid me from here on forever.
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@khaleezi91 said in Kicked my wife's friend out. am I wrong:
@alwaysstranger Did u just use the f word with me>?
are u sick??seriously??It's not 'the f word', it's 'fuck'
Let me fix what you said
@alwaysstranger Did u just say 'fuck" around me>?
Yes, i said 'get the fuck out of here' after i said that you might be homophobic and you replied with 'you're stupid' and incase you didn't notice. 'Get the fuck out of here' contains the word 'fuck'
this post is not even related to religion ,what is ur problem
I talked about religion because being religious is usually correlated with being homophobic. The punishment for homosexuality in islam is death and you're muslim so... i told @losingmymind that you're probably homophobic
why do u have to tag me in ur stupid dumb comments and do u even know whats the meaning of homophobic?
When talking about you, it would've been easier to just say your username than talk in 3rs person whilst using references to you
why do u so frequently draw people into fighting with you on religious stuffs???
You believe in a religion where the punishment for homosexual is death and I'm the one being crazy to assume you're homophobic, lol.
what did i ever say to u for u to be such a prick?
You called me stupid when i said that you MIGHT be homophobic instead of just saying that you're not homophobic + I'm not really a prick, you're just SUPER sensitive
do u even know the meaning of being a respectful human being???
Yeah. When someone calls me stupid for simply pointing out the possibility that they're homophobic, i don't think they're being respectful, whilst telling you to GTFO isn't very respectful either, it is a proper way to deal with such ridiculous behaviour.
just because u r an atheist.. doesnot give u the damn right to become such a retarded idiot...before u type of ur stupidity lavishly ..USE YOUR DUMB INSENSITIVE BRAIN FOR ONCE and ask urself...
You called me stupid 3 times and you haven't even finished your sentence. Weren't you talking about respect 1 second ago?
WHY THE HELL AM I DOING THIS...did this person really say something to offend me..
Yes you did say something to offend me. You called me stupid in response to me pointing out the possibility that you're homophobia which if anything, confirms that you are homophobic or at least insecure about your opinions on homosexuality
did this person really say something about me..or ask me for my advice or ask me for an opinion or is inviting me for a chat....
Incase you didn't notice, i wasn't even talking to you. I was warning @losingmymind to be careful of homophobes on this site in general
u dont need to be a believer to behave respectfully to others ...so please find it in ur heart to avoid me from here on forever.
1st i would like to point out that i didn't down vote anything that you posted ever but guess what you did:
I'm just gonna point out that in this case you are acting SUPER sensitively. Now I'll proceed to call up some friends to get those posts back to 0
2nd no i won't avoid you when you call me stupid or avoid you ever
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@khaleezi91 don't you have anything to say!?
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@alwaysstranger o did u miss me?
u r stupid because inspite of me making it very clear clear to you that im not an extremist muslim..u r still commenting about me in random non religious posts that im homophobic without any underlying real proof of me murdering or burning homosexuals..you are stupid because inspite of me repeatedly expressing to you that i dislike having conversation with you,u dont seem to get it...so yes YOU ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST PERSON I HAVE COME ACROSS...BECAUSE U HAVE NO POWER TO UNDERSTAND..U HAVE NO POWER OF COMPREHENSION..U R OBTUSE...U R BRUTISH..U R TORPID AND U R BLOODY SENSELESS...U R JUST AN EMPTY SHELL FUELED ON HATING ISLAM AND ITS FOLLOWERS..SO YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YOU ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST STUPIDEST STUPIDEST PERSON ON THE SURFACE OF EARTH FOR ME.
ALSO if me not flogging her or killing her and abusing her because she is homosexual is making me less of a muslim ,thats ok because my religion and faith is between me and Allah....and i have to account for my actions only to Allah....
so in a language u understand let me tell u this........FUCKOFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
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@khaleezi91 said in Kicked my wife's friend out. am I wrong:
@alwaysstranger o did u miss me?
u r stupid because inspite of me making it very clear clear to you that im not an extremist muslim..u r still commenting about me in random non religious posts that im homophobic without any underlying real proof of me murdering or burning homosexuals..BUT you do believe in a book that demands you to do such things. Wy don't you just say that you're not homophobic and say that being homosexual is ok in your opinion and that the verses in the quran that demand you to be homophobic and murder homosexuals are wrong and that you don't believe in them.
you are stupid because inspite of me repeatedly expressing to you that i dislike having conversation with you,u dont seem to get it...so yes YOU ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST PERSON I HAVE COME ACROSS...BECAUSE U HAVE NO POWER TO UNDERSTAND..U HAVE NO POWER OF COMPREHENSION..U R OBTUSE...U R BRUTISH..U R TORPID AND U R BLOODY SENSELESS...U R JUST AN EMPTY SHELL FUELED ON HATING ISLAM AND ITS FOLLOWERS..SO YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YOU ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST STUPIDEST STUPIDEST PERSON ON THE SURFACE OF EARTH FOR ME.
Oh thanks
ALSO if me not flogging her or killing her and abusing her because she is homosexual is making me less of a muslim ,thats ok because my religion and faith is between me and Allah....and i have to account for my actions only to Allah....
Oh at least you're admitting that your religion is homophobic
By the way. This isn't for you but if anyone is wondering we are talking about this verse and other verses like it:
"If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, Take the evidence of four (Reliable) witnesses from amongst you against them; and if they testify, confine them to houses until death do claim them, or God ordain for them some (other) way. (The Noble Quran, 4:15)"
so in a language u understand let me tell u this........FUCKOFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
No. I'm not gonna ignore someone who's calling me stupid for simply pointing out the possibility that they're homophobic. Couldn't you just say that you're not homophobic and save everyone some time
