Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online


  • @a-le Nothing's wrong with you, you are an explorer he is ok with what he has.
    Keep pushing a little bit or try a professional consultant, you love him, he loves you,
    both want it to last you need to find something that satisfies both.


  • @lucifer_ thanks for your words ☺ I'm scared of fucking up our relationship, but I need more sexually and can't feel like a nympho for the rest of my life... I'm gonna end up cheating on him for sure if I don't find a way to make this work.


  • @a-le its not just your onus, he has to step up too.
    if he doesn't want to try anything get him to go to a professional at least.
    You cant spend your life unsatisfied or relationship might will get bitter.

  • Music Lovers

    According to me it's not cheating do whatever you want to do man/women..!πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚


  • @one Bro how would you feel if your gf sexted with another random idiot ?

  • Music Lovers

    @lucifer_ no she don't caz I make her fully satisfy she's satisfied by me..πŸ˜œπŸ˜‚ it's going private bro wat r u doing πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


  • @one you are one hard person to figure out man!

  • Music Lovers

    @dee16 ther is nothing exists like boundaries woundries do whatever you want to do..!πŸ˜‚

  • Music Lovers

    @lucifer_ why bro πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜ŽπŸ™πŸ»


  • @one Nothing bro!
    You are a very unique species!
    Just keep it up!
    .

  • Music Lovers

    @lucifer_ damn I'm just kidding bro not a serious statement of mine that was..!πŸ˜‚

  • Gamers

    I don't think there is a simple answer to this, everyone is different. I guess the real question is, is it something you want to stop? And if not, do you explain it to him or keep it secret? Your partner does not need to know everything about you... you will be able to judge better than anyone here if it will affect your relationship. Good luck!


  • @bushmurry well it's actually something I haven't even started, I've been thinking about this idea for a while and thought it could be a good compromise, as it wouldn't be physical or emotional (well just superficially) and that wouldn't mean I'll keep it secret forever....or maybe it might help me in becoming more "understanding" of my partner's feelings ...who knows? I just know that I love him but I know I have some needs to satisfy if I don't want to go crazy...

  • Gamers

    @a-le I am getting help on my relationship as well. Sometimes we can be scared to show all of ourselves to our partner for various reasons. Sometimes our partners can surprise us when we challenge their capacity to understand our feelings. We always assume the worst...
    I feel the need to flirt too, but there are no women in the town I live in I want to flirt with. So I go online. I understand wanting to feel desired by other people, I have no want to leave my partner either. My partner does not mind me flirting or chatting on cam sites, maybe there is a way to keep this secret or maybe there is a way to get what you're needing with permission? Wish I could help more


  • @bushmurry I do flirt innocently when I'm out (not with him of course), and I did get close to regrettable actions... But I do feel wrong, even if I've never done anything disrespectful to him I think... How did you break it up to yr partner? And how did she react to you flirting online? Does she know everything you do when flirting?


  • Yes @Bushmurry how did she react?
    P.S: You cannot hide anything for a lifetime, sooner or later the truth finds its way out.
    P.P.S: Secrets destroy relationships.


  • @a-le Innocent flirting is okay almost everyone does it.
    if complimenting the coffee guy helps you get your coffee better and faster and makes him happy for a while, there's nothing wrong with it.

  • Gamers

    @lucifer_
    Hey dude, love your contributions and thank you for weighing in. She has no problem with me flirting... pretending there is no-one else attractive in the world is an exercise in futility that is bound to fail and end up with you beating yourself up and feeling guilty. Flirting does not harm our relationship, and she of course flirts too. It's fine, I love the way she glows when she catches someone checking her out!
    Talking to cam girls I keep to myself. There are many reasons I do it, and not all of them I am proud of. It actually can be very intimidating to tell the one you love your most taboo thoughts, for fear of judgement by someone you hold dear.

  • Gamers

    @a-le It was hard to tell her. But honestly, I love her and feel proud when people make her feel sexy. After all, I benefit from this when we get home ;). She does not know everything I flirt about, and I don't know everything she flirts about. I don't need to know, I just want her feeling good about herself, and I want to feel good about myself.

    Has your parents ever told you you're beautiful? It's like that... you believe them... but it's not a surprising thing to hear from them. Sometimes it is nicer to hear from a stranger.


  • Well, i think it is better to stick on your relationship, flirting keeps relation at worst, and asking a man 3some is a bad idea. Just tell him the truth he will figure it out what to do.